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30-35,
*heNewOneInTown
writes:Well I have a question:My boyfriend has asked me if I would like to have a threesome... with another guy. I really dont know how to react to that, what should I do? Does that mean he is bi-curious or what? Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): He may have been watching porn (where a single woman with multiple guys is quite common) and quite fancies the idea of you doing some of the things depicted.
(which i dont think i need to describe).. Perhaps you could (jokingly)say only if you get to pick the guy ;)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 April 2011):
 I know that many people will disagree and will probably call me names, but, in my humble opinion, the idea of being naked with another man in a sexual activity hides some homosexual inclinations. Which are none of my business, as I will be happy to agree. But this is my answer to your question.
If you don't want the threesome, by all means refuse. If you refuse, make sure he understands your decision is final. Otherwise he will nag until he gets what he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): More than likely he wants to see you with another guy. Whether you do it is up to you but you really should make sure you find out why your boyfriend wants this. And don't let him give you some vague answer like 'it would be soooo hot!'. Press him for specifics. If it makes him uncomfortable then so be it. Chances are it's a turn on for him but he doesn't know why. Once you know the why you can determine if your boyfriend is really the sort of fellow you want to be with now and in the future. Knowing the why will enable you to make an informed decision. Hopefully it will motivate you to reflect on what about the idea of a Male/Male/Female menage a trois turns you on or off too. What I'm getting at is everyone here needs to understand their motivations for moving forward or deferring.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): there are a number of reasons as to why he has asked this, but what is important here is you. think about it very carefully, there are to ways this could end up, good or bad. ask yourself do you want to take the risk.... when you have thought about and decided what you would like to do then ask him why he has asked you about doing it, but remember to put yourself and what you want first.
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