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writes:Hey there...this is my first time question, i'm an 18 year old boy. I still don't have any contact with girls except kissing. Most often I masterbate.. But I want a relationship and not to be alone anymore.How i overcome this problem? How can i emerge a good relationship with girls and how to be more confident? I need help.
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reader, Patriot  +, writes (23 April 2011):
Yeah, I was totally in your boat when I was your age. Just let me give you two pieces of advice. First, don't try to connect with a slut. She will just hurt you. And my personal definition of slut is very much more inclusive than the one you are used to. Try to imagine what I mean. For example, a lot of the stories on this site come from the endless disasters that the people I am thinking of get themselves into by not being modest or by not having an appreciation for what is sacred.
Second, stop that masturbation. Seriously. It is not good for you, especially if you are watching pornography. It might feel nice, but it's putting all kinds of narcissistic and foreign ideas in your mind that you don't want there.
Just be yourself. And be nice. You have heard that nice guys finish last. Well, that's true. But the other guys aren't running as far as you.
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