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I'm scared to try girls, but I'm attracted to them. sex with guys is no problem

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Question - (23 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm attracted to guys and girls. I consider myself bisexual.

I have no problem with having sexual relations with a guy because I know my penis can become erected.

But is different with a girl because I scared to get a girlfriend because there may come a time with she wants to have sex and im scared I may not become erected and I may get embarrassed.

But I am attracted to girls but when I watch lesbian porn or straight I don't become as erected, but the other porn, like gay I become erected because I'm so use to looking at it.

I scared to start a relationship with a girl but I'm scared there are so many I want to talk to, but I scared I want be able to have sex will it change when I try to try it, is nerves keeping me from being erected because I'm nervous to be with girls in a relationship.

What should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011):

it is obvious that you are 'girl interested' Take it slowly, honestly if you choose a nice girl sex will not be an issue early on. Relationships with girls are a different set of rules altogether. Check out some of the great advice in DC on how to meet girls, ask them on a date, develop feelings for them, and take it slowly, little by little. Lots of bi-guys end up with very very

satisfying full relationships with a girl

and even with a wife. Be honest with a girl if the relationship turns serious that you are bi.

Relax and enjoy the experience. There are some very wise Uncles on DC who can also give you really great ideas on how to treat girls.

Needless to say we girls love kindness, good manners, empathy and respect. We also love lots of cuddles and sweet words whispered in our ears.

Trust your self, relax and allow yourself to explore the world of girls!

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