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It seems like my boyfriend could try a little harder to be with me!

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Question - (23 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months now. when we first started dating he was all about me and hanging out with me, we spent so much time together and he would stay at my house almost every night, and when he didnt he told me he couldnt sleep and missed me alot! i know he loves me and we talk about our future and stuff. but recently hes just been acting different like i went to a friends house and stayed the night and called him and talked to him before i left and texted him while i was there but he only texted me back twice then the next day he didnt text me or call me all day and i texted him at least 3 times and called him a few times then later that night he messaged me and said he loved me and said he called me twice but my phone never rang. then i called him right away and he didnt answer then the next day he didnt call me or text me all day and then later that night he messaged me saying his dad must have paid his phone bill late because he didnt get any of my texts....then i called him and no answer again..finally the next day around 8:00 he call and wanted to hang out. its just wierd you would think he would try a little harder to see me.. and i dont know what he was doing over those couple of days. i dont think he would cheat on me but idk before we started dating he was kind of a whore..and he told me he was different now that hes with me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.. i just dont know what to do:(

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (25 April 2011):

dirtball agony auntDon't overreact. My phone has been pissing me off a lot lately too, missing calls and texts. It's weird, but it happens. The other day I had a voicemail but my phone never even rang. No missed call in the call log either...

It is odd that he was a lot less communicative those couple of days, but it's best to just talk about it. Don't make an issue where there doesn't need to be one because I can assure you that phone problems DO happen, and I always pay my bill on time.

Trust your gut instincts. You'll be able to tell if something is up when you see him next time.

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