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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What's wrong with my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A college friend of mine has been acting a bit weird lately. Whenever I or our friends come to hang out, he tends to go off on his own. We usually hang out quite a bit, but now he just seems like he's avoiding me and our friends. I had a feeling that he was interested in me, ... (149 words)

Pre cum problem...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i seem to have a problem. when i am with my girlfriend and we are getting horny etc.... when i get an erection i get a lot of pre cum. I dont like this at all, when she is going to go down my trousers, i have to stop her and get my penis out myself while slyly drying my penis. ... (99 words)

I don't want to come across to her as desperate. What do I do here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody.. My girlfriend doesnt have time for me but i do not care . I love her so much its hard to let her go. I think i have annoyed her asking her to go out more often since she usually doesnt trust most people in her life. I pissed her off and now i feel like she ... (211 words)

Has he finally given up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in high school. There's a guy I've been playing staring games (that he started by trying to flirt with me after mistaking my friendship request as flirting) with since the 8th grade. And since I felt like trying to try again after that, I tried to prance up to him and greet ... (169 words)

Do I confront him... or just leave it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Heres the thing: I am not proud of it but I snooped around a few years ago and found my boyfriend's password to his email. I checked it once and didn't find anything suspicious. I felt horrible for betraying his trust and privacy but, I never said anything to him. We have been ... (270 words)

I like him too but I'm scared he will hurt me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am from Japan. I have been studying in U.S. I met one guy who really cool and handsome. He told me he likes me and wants to be my boyfriend. we already date once. I don't know much about American guys. What are their likes and don'ts? Can u guys give me advice? I like him too ... (65 words)

Period lasting for 2 months??? Worried!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi my wife has had her period for two months now im getting worried, she's alway angry and stressed and working a lot how can u help me?... (28 words)

Morally confused about lesbianism.. Don't know what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Morally confused about Lesbianism. Dont know what to do??? I am 25 and married, been w/ my husband for 9 years,since I was 16.He was my 1st boyfriend.I have felt sort of attracted 2 other girls since middle school, but I always just convinced myself it was just jealousy... (625 words)

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who was an escort in 2006, and I ... (518 words)

Should I ask him to be my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a freshman in high school (age 14) and I have developed a crush on this really cute and sweet football player. There is just one problem: He is one of the most popular seniors in the entire school! We have never spoken before, and he is 6'4'', which can be a little ... (110 words)

Don't you love it when you realise the person you're meant to be with is your ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Don't you love it when you realise the person you're meant to be with is your ex? Furthermore, don't you love it when you go out to talk to your ex who is in a bad relationship and you end up kissing with her for hours? Neither do I, its pretty crap. What do I do from here? ... (109 words)

Sex? I can take it or leave it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 and my boyfriend is 28 and sometimes i dont wanna have sex but i do anyway, dont want him cheating on me, thats why i do it and now we live together what should i do?... (38 words)

Do women tell their friends EVERYTHING about their boyfriends???

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, to all women, do you talk to your best friends and tell them everything about your bf. i mean everything, like dirty details?... (24 words)

My boyfriend's depression is really putting a strain on me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there is this boy I have been dating for a few months and i like him a lot. Problem is he is very depressed and sensitive to everything so i have to watch what i say all the time. He is on anti-depressants but they don't seem to be working. I have tried talking to him ... (281 words)

Don't know how to snog.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm 13, im really nervous about saying this... especially on here. I don't know how to snog/tongue my boyfriend. He says to me last week, "You won't even tongue me." And i don't know what to do! I don't know how to! Can somebody explain what i should do please?!... (59 words)

I think my ex wants to get to me through my friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I havent spoken to my Ex in like a month or so. This Ex was/is The love of my life and Im not really even sure why we broke up.Probably boredom. Anyway IT was a 6 years relationship and it Hurts allot! Recently I walked into her and She was an Emotional Time bomb wait... (160 words)

Would a girlfriend actually make me happy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 21 and can't get a girlfriend. I have been alone for almost 3 years now and it feels really bad. I keep hoping that I will meet the perfect girl for me, but it never happens. There are so many girls at uni, yet I can't seem to meet the right ones. I feel as though t... (222 words)

Boyfriend caught on dating sites and texting other women...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am new to this. I just did not know where else to turn. I have no one else to discuss this with. My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years. He is considerably older than me but it has never been an issue for either of us. WE get on very well and have much in co... (689 words)

Why wont my husband perform oral sex on me?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for 11 years now and I am very hurt by the fact he will not perform oral sex on me I give him bjs all the time but he won't ever return the favor. I desire it so much that I often think about cheating to get oral sex also he won't touch my ... (86 words)

Anal sex... to try or not to try...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I'm 19 and i never had anal sex. my hubby really wants to try it but I'm scared as i have heard its painful. what do u guys think? n i would appreaciate if u would tell me the ways to enjoy it without much pain for the first time!! thanks!! xoxo... (56 words)

How do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My question is how do I deal with my boyfriend confessing he has no desire for sexual intercourse? A year and a half before we met he found out he had prostate cancer. He had it removed, and right before we met he had surgery/ inflatable prosthetic. For the first 5 months we ... (396 words)

What do I do? I want to get him back, because everything in me tells me that this is wrong.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. I started seeing this guy in July and by August we were a couple. He lived an hour and a half so we didn't see each other every day, but we constantly communicated. We told each other things that we'd never told anyone else, we talked about all the ... (655 words)

Questions on having a threesome!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Threesome or not? I would like some input on threesomes (or more). Do you regret it? Was the orgasm more mind blowing than being with a single partner? Was it worth it? Would you do it again? Did it cause trouble with your partner? ... (51 words)

He likes to dress up and put make up on... I'm scared he might be transexual!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been w/my bf for almost a year, and a few months ago he told me he was a CD. I am pretty good with it - it's fun to dress up together, I do his make up, and we have a great time with it. This weekend was our first night of dressing up and going out, and he was so ... (328 words)

He says he CAN'T marry me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i trust him but he broke my trust but now I'm very worried what to do? i have to marry someone else but please please tell me how can i hide this from my futur husband that I'm not virgin. plssss plsss dont say that i should tell him the truth.... this is the only thing which i ... (113 words)

He says I am too demanding, I say he is using me for his benefit!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age - ok, I have asked questions on here before.. and now I just need to know it is not me. I am 47 years old, divorced woman 2 kids. I am finanically independent. I have been with the same man for 7 years. He is also 47 years old with 2 children. We have had our sha... (502 words)

What steps would you take if you were in my position???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4944 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. Quick bit of background... Was in a relationship with a guy from Apr-08 to Feb-10. He lived 100 miles away and he is 33, I am 21. We stayed in constant contact even after we broke up and a couple of months ago were taking things slowly again with a view to gett... (569 words)

How can I get my friend to talk to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, i need your help, its a long story but i'll try to cut it short. basically i fell in love with this guy and i thought the feeling was mutal. He just seemed to shy to say, afew things happened but i still didnt say anything and when i eventually did he told me he di... (892 words)

Am I only being driven by guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so. I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago. we had been going out for a year and a half. it was a pretty harsh decision which i regret now. i thought i wanted to go out with other people but now that i am, i want her back. i had never been as happy as i was with her. ... (167 words)

Long distance boyfriend doesn't crave to see me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've dated my bf for half a year before we turned into long-distance, so far it has already been one and half month of LDR. This morning I suggested to visit him during Christmas, but he said he's unsure about it. He said he wanted to see me for sure, but "it could be too much" ... (131 words)

He doesn't know I have kids... Help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am married with 2 kids, but the guy i love i have known him past 10 years. Well in between we lost contact. Then now we are back in contact. He doesnt know I am married with kids and that i am still with my husband(verge of sepearating from my husband) Just recentl... (179 words)

Help! What can I do to enjoy sex more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, I'm a 19 year old female and me and my boyfriend have sex 2-3 times ever yday. i am not that into sex but i do it for him. he enjoys it a lot and i wanna enjoy it too but i dont know why i don't enjoy it that much. yea i kinda like it but i wanna enjoy it more (i ... (80 words)

Why can I not forget him and why do I want to see him again even though the relationship did hurt me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The reason for being here is that... i feel like i cannot forget my ex long distance lover... a have a new partner now, long story, i comitted not to be alone and wanting to kill the memory of my ex... have been through all stages of emotions, and every time i try to love in ... (227 words)

Anxiety and depression linked to girlfriend, somehow just lost all feelings...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my situation is an extremely long one, but I won't get into all the details I'll just say this: my current ex girlfriend and I had a great relationship, and my first relationship. Over the summer she went on a 3 day trip, and I went to visit a friend during that brea... (493 words)

I never wanted to love him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4944 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - For a while now, I've been seeing this kind, stubborn, generous, difficult, intelligent, and hilarious man (Angelo). When I first met him, I really didn't think we'd make it far. But then, there was this instant chemistry and ease with each other that came naturally though we ... (157 words)

How to go from Facebook to dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've recently gotten out of a 15 year marriage and am ready to start dating again. I have found someone I'm interested in, but do not really want to make the first move. The guy is a friend on fb, who I grew up with. He seems to 'like' EVERYTHING I put up and I've noticed he ... (145 words)

What can I do to fix it???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm just plain confused. My (ex) fiance told me "I'm just not in love with you anymore. After four years together I thought we were pretty much set and until just recently she seemed very much in love with me. But what I'm confused about is that when we gave each other our ... (272 words)

Do I pursue something with him again or move on? I

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about 2 years, we have had our ups and downs just like any other couple, I thought we were doing really, really well..he even took me out to California to meet his dad in August! But three weeks ago, he broke up with me. He told me it was because ... (295 words)

I have been in love with my best friend for a few years now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been in love with my best friend for a few years now and i hate the fact i have to feel this way. you can't help it. it comes naturally. we have known each other for over 7 years. i want to tell her how i feel about her but im terrified of how she is going to react and ... (91 words)

Would you forgive me for the way I'm treating him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think one of my guy friends likes me and I don't like him back but I did a really really mean thing and I feel really bad especially since i think he thinks I like him back. Basically when I found out that he probebly likes me I happen to forget a piece of homework so I asked ... (250 words)

Should I tell her about my past? I'm afraid of what she might think!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 39 years old. I was raised in a house filled with deceit. Which is why I am writing today. I met a wonderful woman and have been together for 4 months. I believe in complete openness between lovers to help ensure the best compatibility. I have been in many relationships, ... (129 words)

Too tight for first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - A few months ago my ex boyfriend fingered me, and it felt really good. But afterwards he told me that maybe I should lose my virginity to someone else as he thought I was "too tight." For various reasons we decided to break up and now I'm with someone new. We both want to ... (91 words)

Baby and baby daddy and sex blues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First question: hey evryone.im going to be brief asking this.im caught between three guys.one is my babydaddy but im dumping him.im done with him hurtn me.he askd me not to give up on us but ive held on too long.this ex's just came back in my life but i swear i havent done anyt... (142 words)

What does she want from me ? Friendship ? Attention ? Life is too short for these stupid games.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this girl for a few month now we used to text everyday ( one of her girlfriends told me she liked me and got my number for her)and see each other through our group of friends quite abit, occasionally I'd walk her home, and I really liked her so I decided to tell her. ... (318 words)

How do I smooth things over so I can be part of my neice's life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that my brother's girlfriend is pregnant. Her and I had a falling out at the beginning of this year over her cheating on him with our step brother. Well, he forgave her and they stayed together but she's not over it yet and is still mad at me (why? I didn't ... (182 words)

He knows I like him, I think he likes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i know nearly every girl says this but i am really struggling to understand the male mind! I really need some advice on my current situation... This boy who i like, knows that i like him and i think he sort of feels the same way. I havent known him for very long, but we w... (337 words)

The relationship changed after we slept together

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I used to be the greatest girl ever. The one who was cute, sweet, sexy, smart and funny. He was contacting me on a daily basis and every time we went out together it was clear that we liked each other very much. I am not the kind of person who thinks everyone ... (377 words)

Newly separated and it's killing me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We're 20, have been together for more than 6 months, and I moved 1000 miles away. We knew almost since we started dating that this day would come, but I haven't imagined we would mean this much to me. It's KILLING me, we separated only 5 days ago, and I can't study, can't be ... (258 words)

Boyfriend driving me nuts complaining about his job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf complains about his job constantly!!! I know its hard work and I know he stresses about money, I try to help him out but he won't let me. I don't know whether to encourage him to get another job or to talk to him about his negativity...but its driving me nuts!!! Help!... (54 words)

Cheating husband and now I'm insure whether to stay or go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 9 years now. My husband works a state away and so stays with a friend when he's working late. I found out last nite that he is staying with just a woman and not a man and a woman as he has claimed for 3 years now. I found the followig text on his ... (279 words)

He's sending majorly mixed signals about his desires for a relationship and sex. Is he lying or being legitimate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunties and Uncles. I need some help. I appreciate all advice given! This is a book! I apologize in advance! lol I met a man online months ago. Our relationship began as just casual pen pals and we soon became online friends. A couple months after having met onlin... (1347 words)

Girlfriend abroad, afraid she loves it more than she loves me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 13 months now. We're both in our 3rd year of college. We met our freshman year during the 2nd semester and became quick friends, which is very unusual for me. I struggle with generalized anxiety disorder as well as some ... (1374 words)

What can I do to fix this? My husband refuses to get any outside help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been together for almost 3 years, and married for the past 4 months. Our relationship has been a not so normal one, we got engaged after 4 months of being together. He always wanted a family and never had a chance to have one, while I already had 2 ... (568 words)

Was it ok for me to say this to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i like this guy but he is trying to control me. ive been through all this kind of stuff before. Now ive realized what he is trying to do i am breaking away from him. Was it ok for me to tell him 'look i really like you a lot and im upset but we both want different things in our ... (170 words)

Is she trying to hint that she likes me? I want to tell her how I feel but I'm scared of messing up our friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with this girl I have known for about a year now. At I thought of her only as a friend, but recently I have been developing feelings for her, which only get stronger every day. Last week I asked her if we could hang out together, and she accepted, we wan... (215 words)

Married a Thai girl and now have regrets.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, In 2004 I found myself coming to the end of a 3 year relationship and started looking online on dating websites. To be 100% honest I liked the idea of having a very beautiful gf and I am only average looking myself but I am kind and successful and thought I would ... (744 words)

According to my boyfriend I'm too tight! What position can we do to make it better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my bf says im too tight, can it be the position we usually use. what can i do?... (19 words)

My husband is infatuated with another woman. Can we get past this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are going through a rough patch in our marriage- he's infatuated with another woman, who also happens to be my coworker and is dating his best friend. (Yes, some of you may recognize this situation from his Dear Cupid post.) In a nut shell, he began talking to ... (245 words)

How do I get rid of my ex-girlfriend without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - How do I get my ex-girlfriend to move on without hurting her? That’s probably a hard question I know as its probably inevitable someone gets hurt. We went out with each other for 11 months, she pushed me away several times probably because of her illness (anorexia) but t... (161 words)

Troubled love, a constant cycle.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm a 17 year old girl and I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 yrs. In the fall of 2009 he left me b/c his friends told him that he should live his life and experience other girls so he left me but he was at my house everyday crying and missing me finally we ... (460 words)

Possibly in love with my roommate... but is it worth the risk with his ex still around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I tried to make this short… I’m sorry! I’ve signed a two-year lease with Frank while I finish my degree. We found each other on the schools roommate search and instantly hit it off. We had been talking/emailing every day for the month before we moved in, and ended up realizing ... (765 words)

Ex says he loves me, but slept with someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex says he still loves me and wants me back, but I just found out he slept with another girl (one of his house mates). I have not confronted him yet, on my side I have told him I want us to be friends first before being involved again. I want to know - is this a guy thing? ... (87 words)

Is this just a mind game or more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Not sure if this is just a mind game for sexual validation or more.Thanks in advance for all advice, I work in a small office w/ about 20 people. To know my past I have been only w/men and have been very picky so I have only been with two and I am 32. I have dated alot but... (599 words)

Am I a nag or does my partner have a problem with drink and drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - am i nag or does my partner have a problem? im 11 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child and been with my partner on and off for 9 years. i left him last year as he drinks 5 times a week and used to take cocaine spending 150 a week on it i just couldnt cope any more. he proved n... (196 words)

I only want men for sex, how do I seek out this kind of guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 22 year old bi male. I only have relationships with females, men are just for sex. I'm having trouble however, finding men to be just sex buddies. They want full out relationships, and I'm not at all interested. Any thoughts as to what I should do to seek out guys for ... (66 words)

I don't know how to behave whenever my boyfriend brings up sex!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, So, this is a quick question. I do not have a clue how to behave whenever my boyfriend brings up something about making love and sex. W're having a long distance relationship so I understand how it feels not being able to meet in a regular basis, but he's been tr... (135 words)

I don't want to tell my mum about my period!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Help. This is really weird and I don't know why I'm doing this but anyway. I'm 13 and I just started my period this afternoon. I have already had a "slight leakage" or watever so technically this is my second period. And my mum got me a box of pads at the start of the year so ... (236 words)

He kept all of the old photos, emails and letters I sent him when we were together, does this mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a long distance relationship with a guy, we broke up and lost touch for about 5 years. Now we have started talking again and he has told me that he kept every photo I sent him and every email, letter that I sent him. Does the fact he kept all this stuff mean anyth... (64 words)

Girlfriend suddenly broke up with me last week - am I doing the right thing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

4 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Hello. I'm just trying to get some advice here. My girlfriend unexpectedly broke up - by text - last week. Her reasons were that she needed to concentrate on studies (she started University last week) and family, and that she felt I wouldn't support her - as it would mean se... (386 words)

If your fiance cheated before proposing, would you want to know?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Would you want to know if your fiance cheated on you before he proposed...would you want to know before marrying, or would you rather remain "ignorant" if he is no longer cheating? Would you rather have honesty and a "true" relationship, or a relationship where there are lies... (55 words)

We never seem to do anything and I'm bored!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - help people please...i have been dating a lovely guy for 2 months now,we get on well but we never seem to do anything he gets up at 2am to go to the gym then he goes to work all day and calls me at night,i only see him at weekends because of our busy lives..he treats me well ... (112 words)

Thought it was love but it was fear.

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i been with my boyfriend for 8 yr. we have 4 lil boys but he is very abusive both ways im scared of him how can my babys and i leave with out getting hurt?please help... (37 words)

What are some of the biggest regrets people have with relationships that go wrong?

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a huge question and the reason I ask is because I don't want to make the same mistakes that everyone else makes. I would be grateful if someone could give me some information about the worst regrets or mistakes people make with relationships. I already have mad... (79 words)

I feel like no boy will ever want me!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i know theres people much worse off people then me out there but im so fed up of my life. people have told me go get out there and meet new boys, as i was going for the wrong type (just wanted 1 thing). so i did this and met this boy i really liked he had a baby from his ... (202 words)

Why did my ex txt me out of nowhere & tell me hes sorry for not talking to me and that hes single??

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently my ex sent me a txt saying sorry for not talking to me till now..that he was with in a controlling relationship with this girl and didnt want me caught up in her bs.He then followed with a txt saying "no i dont have the hats and im no longer with that girl either" or ... (352 words)

Your sexuality can change over time during puberty, is this true?

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am a 15 years old male, i have masturbated to gay porn since i knew and masturbated to straight porn a few times. after i finish to gay porn i usually feel bad inside, i have dreamt of having gay sex, but dreamt of having sex with a girl as well. But i am currently i... (191 words)

My ex pushes me away and then pulls me back. I'm so confused!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Me and my ex have been split up nearly 2 months now and im still not over him. We were together just over a year and engaged. We work together at the same place but in different units but still see each other. He always smiles and acts friendly but it upsets me so i try... (261 words)

My girl friend and I have been together for 2 yeas she confessed she cheated on me recently I still love her what do I do??

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 16 My girlfriend(17 but same grade) and I have been together for 2 years almost and one day out of the clear blue she just dumped me the night of the homecomeing dance I thought this was very odd and I was devistated and I kept trying to win her back for 2 weeks and then ... (164 words)

I asked him to change his ringtone for his mom, he did, but now he's mad!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband's ring tone for his mom is 'I'll Always Love My Mama', which starts ringing with that and 'she's my favorite girl'. Then the song goes on to say 'my heart belongs to you'. I have listened to it for 4-5 months, and last night I asked him about it, tried to discuss... (159 words)

How do I improve my low libido?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 19yo and i have a low labito... i have a 10mth old baby and i have been with his father for 5 years now.... i love him a lot... and im attracted to him.... there are times when i really want to have sex with him.. but when it comes time to do it and were in bed.... i just ... (123 words)

Message to my X-gf, in case she calls again

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Short summary: my x-gf cheated on me with her x-bf, I knew about it ~1 months later (when she came back from her vacation and I came to the airport to meet her and saw them together). Few days later she called me crying saying she is confused, don't know how it's hap... (655 words)

What am I supposed to do in this situation?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Need help guys...VERY confused right now! So Iv been in a relationship for a year now. Knew this guy all along, but we were never really friends, although i know he used to like me a lot. I left town for higher studies,got back, we got in touch and now we'r together. This g... (417 words)

My so called friend has been spreading rumours that I am leaving my husband for him!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, It has come to my attention from a reliable source that a male friend i went to school with and haven't seen for 22 years has said to someone that i am going to leave my husband for him!! he has also said he has met my children and that he's friends with my husband!... (338 words)

I've tried and tried to get her back but nothing is working, what should I do now?

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 20 right now, and i used to be dating my best friends sister which he was fine with, but then one day for no reason at all she decided she wasnt interested in me anymore and i was left heart broken, i loved her so much and for the next month after that i tried getting her ... (200 words)

Is my boyfriend still interested in me?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i know whether my bf is not interested in me anymore. its been 10 months for a relationship before he used to call me everyday but now for the past 2 months it has reduced. he tells me that he's been busy lately with work n stuff. how can a guy be busy throughout the day ... (149 words)

Long distance, online relationship - will this work?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ONLINE dating question Situation: met a guy on a online dating site. Super hot and educated...real busy though...seemed really into me but he lives in chicago n me cali. When we talk, he mostly talks about his work and some worthless conversation. He never really asks ques... (181 words)

My family and in laws are trying to destroy my marriage!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I really need help and advice. I have been having some serious problems with family. I have a mother in law who claims she is a religious christian follower, but what a hypocrite she is. She is constantly doing things to make me feel unwelcomed and not part of the ... (508 words)

I want to show my girlfriend that I love her but she's not easily impressed!

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me: I'm 19 years old, I'm in college, I live 1 hour and 50 mins. away from my girlfriend. (I have a car) We've been together for 1 year, 2 months and 14 days. We love each other to death, and I trust her more than I would even trust my mom. (I love and trust my mom) I am a r... (330 words)

I want to lose my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend! What should I do?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm nearly 15 and I really want to give up my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend or know anyone that would want to have sex with me. What should I do?... (33 words)

Do I masturbate too much?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it weird for a 14 year old girl to masterbate nearly every day?... (14 words)

We have only been together for 8 months and I'm worried we are not having sex enough!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This might seem like a strange question to ask, but I'm wondering if I have anything to worry about! Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months, spent nearly everyday together in that time. But the thing is our sex life had dwindled down to 2-3 times a week - more twic... (168 words)

How to deal with a friendship/FWB gone wrong?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I never thought this would be me. I never thought I would be in this type of situation, ever. Especially not with someone who I thought was my bestfriend. Me and my "bestfriend" had sort of a fwb thing going on while he had a girlfriend. This has been continuing on an... (430 words)

Guys, would you be reluctant to marry a virgin?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and never had a boyfriend before... I went to an all-girls school and have just started at a mixed college. A lot of the other girls I know are sleeping around and stuff. But I don't feel like I want anything like that. Hearing about girls getting pregnant and STD... (213 words)

Should I see her again?

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, me and this girl have known each other for 8 years online. We fell in mutual love just over a year ago and found out 8 months ago, we had been dating since. I recently visited the city she lives in to work, however my VISA runs out in a week and we split just recently. ... (368 words)

If he is not interested in me then why is he acting this way?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been talking to this guy on and off for over two years now. We met on an online dating site but never met in person. In the beginning he seemed really interested in a relationship and he talked to me all the time.He would always tell me how beautiful he thought I was. ... (240 words)

Is it worth fighting for my relationship, or shall I let him go?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been together with my boyfriend for 3 months, he's recently taken custody of his 2 kids. But I'm very unhappy as he's treating me the same as he treated his ex wife. And I have spoken to him about it and he tells me I'm being very silly. How do I get it into his head th... (104 words)

How do I go about getting my girlfriend to try new things in the bedroom?

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Do most women like exploring different sexual styles? I'm considering of doing different things in sex with my girlfriend. Like using toys, watching videos while having sex, fingering her, licking her, and having sex in different places like the car or the shower or in ... (101 words)

Is online flirting considered cheating?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is ONLINE flirting considered cheating? My boyfriend gave me his Facebook password, and I check his messages (he doesnt know) and he's always flirting with this girl, he even asked her to be his sideline girlfriend, she said no but they still flirt and they "talk" as if ... (111 words)

Why do I still feel sad for my finished marriage?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just left home of my 2 year marriage, it was so sad to leave my house and my husband, even when he changed the locks on me and I had to call the cops so they convince him to come and open the door for me. Am I too weak or what... I mean, relationship was lacking of ... (132 words)

He will not go away!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with a guy, but I ended things with him for various reasons. He will NOT go away though. He cries, complains, begs, does whatever to have "another shot." I've been very honest with him telling him that I do not see him in my future and that he lacks ... (325 words)

I'd like to move closer to online girlfriend but she's afraid her family won't approve

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Met her online about 4 years ago, and have pretty much talked everyday since. We have both confessed that we love each other even though we're currently far away from one another. Would plan to go up to a college/univeristy close to her to really be with her but she's afraid of ... (153 words)

Whenever we go out I'm afraid my b/f is looking at other girls

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i get over my insecurities? Every time me and my boyfriend go out to anywhere out of our house i cant help but to think he's looking at all other girls. he's admitted to looking at other girls in the past but he says he hasnt really done it anymore at all. but i think... (146 words)

His girlfriend is in the way!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so i really like this guy, and he likes me too. But he has a girlfriend. What should i do?... (21 words)

Stay at home mom wants to go back to school

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, well i been a stay at home mom for about 2 1/2 years now and my husband came to me recently asking me what was i going to do next either go to school or get a job. im only 22 and i do want to go back to school is just that im scared because i havent delt with that ... (85 words)

Anal virgin needs advice

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Until this morning, I was an anal virgin. At the age of 33. Now my question is : what do I need to know if I'm going to allow this to happen again? Practical considerations? safety concerns? I enjoyed it - but what can I do to make it more enjoyable for me) Is it messy ? (I ... (70 words)

Boyfriend thinks if we move into together I should pay double his rent because he has a car!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend now for 8 months, i am 27 and he is 28, and he is very sweet and kind and very caring. Recently, well today I was discussing perhaps moving in together in the future. I am living with a roommate and he is living with his mom and is paying rent. I'm ... (239 words)

What's it going to be like to be an old person?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so have you ever thought about what it is going to be like when you are older or like to have an actual job and family etc. Or when you die? Like I've always tried to imagine my self being 18 or whatever but I never can, like being allowed to go to parties or drink or have ... (91 words)

He keeps dreaming of kissing this girl!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this guy I've really fallen for told me that he had a dream of kissing a girl that he had a mega major crush for almost a year last year and asked her out twice but she turned him down but yeah, he still had a dream about kissing her and not me...then I asked him about ... (96 words)

I don't want to cut my ex out of my life completely

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I recently broke up and it's been 3 weeks, however she's already in a relationship with someone else a week after ending things with me. She just put a posting on facebook about how she is happy. Suffice to say that ripped my heart out even further. I was ... (158 words)

Will it grow anymore?

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 15 year old male with a 6 1/2 inch penis with a girth of almost 6 inches. Will my penis grow anymore? P.S. I would apreciate it if answerers dont give me the "your to young to be thinking about sex" answer. Im just curious and I want mature honest answers. Than... (61 words)

I'm thinking of cheating since my husband hasn't touched me in 1.5 years

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a woman of 35years old,married for 6 years now but i feel like quitting this marriage because my husband atitude is driving me crazy.he dosnt care about me.when i was pregnant of my last baby,for complete 6months,he do not care to ask me how we[baby and i]are doing.he ... (255 words)

Should I open up to this guy?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a freshman girl (14yrs old) and there's a junior guy (16-17) who really likes me. At first, he started being nice to me, making me laugh, etc. and I knew that he was sending me signals that he likes me so I told him that I didn't like him at all (even though I did).I ... (137 words)

Plans went awry and now I'm a bit confused and irritated

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 'Ello, Aunts and Uncles. I've got a bit of a conundrum for ya and I appreciate any advice offered. Honestly, I would like to see more male opinions on this than female. However, all advice is welcome, read, and appreciated, lovelies! :] I met a guy online a few months back.... (727 words)

3 years after break up he is still so messed up!

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4 October 2010 (F)

Going from one twin to the other?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I met these twins. I liked one of them alot, until I started to get to know the other one. Then the other one asked me out, and I said yes because I talked to him more. A week later, he called me and told me that he made a big mistake, and that he cheated on me. I was mad, but ... (202 words)

My boyfriend treats me like a kid!

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, my bf is 18; he treats me like a little kid all the time! Seriously, I know I'm still growing up but really! So is he! I really do love him but I'm tired of being treated like a 10 year old... help?... (45 words)

Weird behaviour -- is she breaking up with me, or pregnant?

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this girl for almost a year now. The situation is complicated. She is married, her husband knows it is over. They sleep in seperate rooms just in the same house until her house sells. Neither one of them can afford to the morgage by themselfs. She has not ... (121 words)

Can someone help me to stop this streak of bad luck with guys?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately, I've been really lonely. All of my bestfriends are in amazing relationships. They always tell me how amazing it is to have a boyfriend, and that feels amazing. I want to feel that. I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend. Every time I start to like a guy, ether they don't... (230 words)

She wants to try again, but I'm not sure

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. And from that day on we have talked. So about 4 or 5 months that we have been talking I went in saw her. I live in oregon and she lives in boston. So I went in saw her for the frist time and it was great we got a long good we had a great ... (300 words)

He hasn't been the same since he was released from prison

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone! I'm not sure if there is anyone out there who can help me. My husband was released from prison almost a year ago. He was in prison for four and a half years. when he went in, we had been married for 8 months, and I was 3 months pregnant. the resons why he was in ... (467 words)

He has a girlfriend, is he interested in me?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy i'm interested in. I've known him as an aquaintance since i was about 16, i'm now 28. Over the last 6 months we've started to get to know each other better. When i was younger i didn't really have an attraction for him but i always felt that there was something ... (262 words)

Is he just trying to break it off in a nice way? or is he legit?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently ran into an old classmate on a social networking website. We exchanged text messages multiple times a day and even spoke for hours at a time on the phone. We made plans to get together, being that we live an hour and a half away from one another. Well, this past ... (285 words)

How do I come about asking him to be in a long distance relationship?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy in april. we had a strong connection but did nothing to act on it. we remained friends and kept in contact. last month, i was at an official event in his hometown which he knew about. we decided to visit. we went out the first night, ended up at a beach and then, ... (156 words)

Hinting as being gay, but messed up coming out completely

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately, I have been wanting to come out. on my calendar I wrote "National Coming Out Day!" And I am starting to record the l word. I am 13. and 110% percent sure I am a lesbian. So, I am trying to come out. But, really messed up. I told my mom I was gay at 12. And then tol... (82 words)

Is this guy getting off with leading me on and messing with my head?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help understanding guys behaviour. There's a guy I work with who I have developed strong feelings for. He has been flirting with me for a while, but I hadn't really taken much notice at first,until I noticed he would blush around me and fidget as if he was nervou... (608 words)

Is it love or dependency for your husband?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know dis female who husband cheats on her. his last mistress he actually fell in love wit. He actually left his wife, wanted a family and was getting a divorce to be with her. After the affair the mistress ended the relationship and he went back to his wife. even doe he went ... (253 words)

Broken by a best friend

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so, in first grade, this girl and I became best friends in 1st grade. I thought we were still best friends and was pretty much oblivious, inviting her to swim and stuff. So, years later, we have a class together (finally, since it had been years since we did). I ... (215 words)

Can you really be torn between two people

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm caught in a dilema from messing with a married man.we both felled in love. Because of all the drama and opinions of what and how the relationship started it both played a part in both our situations which I believe ended it. He went back to his wife out of guilt and sorr... (449 words)

We broke up, I slept with his friend

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me,just up and left.A week later i slept with his friend.We got back together a couple days after that. I told him what happened,and he still can't forgive me and hates me everyday for it. I dont know if we are going to make it or not.Should we just ... (60 words)

I'm a female in love with a gay guy

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I really need to get this off of my chest because it's been on my mind constantly for the last couple of days. I'm 20 years old. I have this teacher assistant in my english class which I really believe is gay because the way he talks and plus I have lots of gay friends, ... (272 words)

New to sex, what are good positions?

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4 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, My girlfriend and I have decided to have sex. I know she wants me to initiate it, but I am a virgin and don't know what positions will give her the most pleasure. She has had sex once before, and I want her to enjoy it more this time. Any recommendations ... (61 words)

How do I date in a small town with no guys?

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4 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have been single for some time and I am ready to move on. I really dont know how to do this, I live in a really small town ( aka no guys). I go to college all day long then work so I really never met anyone new. I have done the online stuff. I just dont know any more how to ... (97 words)

How to get My Ex back after such a Tragic Break Up

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4 October 2010 (M) age 30-35 - Well I have had this Relationship and it didn't last long. A little over a Month actually. But please don't judge me from that. The woman I dated was everything and more. I loved hearing her voice in the morning. She always was happy to talk to me and call me anytime. She ... (366 words)