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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's not circumcised, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, this is a stupid question but...when I'm kissing my bf, he puts my hand on his erect penis, and I'm not really sure what to do! He's not circumcised, so I'm wondering if I should move my hand so that the head pops in and out of the foreskin kinda? Also, do I need to make ... (76 words)

Old feelings surfaced again -- how long before I should contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age - Hi, I recently bumped into an old school friend and we had a nice chat, at the end of the evening after the skittles match i asked for her tel No, which was great. Speaking to a friend he said she was on her own, so the next evening i phoned her and said it was lovely... (220 words)

B/f acts like I don't exist!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help and advice. Me and my boyfriend have been together six months, but recently he's been too busy for me and its like i dont exist. We normally talk everynight on the phone before we go to sleep, but he hasnt done it once the past 2-3 weeks, also i dont think he's ... (140 words)

Four missed periods?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, and on loestrine 24 birth control, I have been taking this for almost a year with no problems at all. Up until recently. I have missed four periods now, and taken about 8 at home tests, all negative. I have no signs of pregnancy, other than a little weight ... (165 words)

Fiance killed in war, I'm only living for our unborn child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiancé and I had been together for what would've been six years in November; since we were 15. While he was on leave from the Air Force, he proposed five months ago and we set the date for 11/11/11. Which, coincidentally, would have been our seven year anniversary. He j... (207 words)

He watches porn while I"m lying right next to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help...Well me and boyfriend have been together about seven months.Everything has been great..Well I THOUGHT.He lives with me and I am a single mom of four and was in a bad marriage for 8 years and didnt won't to have sex and didnt for 2 years then I MET I thought the guy of my ... (191 words)

How do we get it back to the way it was when we first met?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy justin barelly even friends is without a doubt just what I want in a guy its weird I dont know him well but we talk sometimes we live right down the hall from each other be weve never really hung out. He says he knows what he wants and what he says he is looking for ... (183 words)

What could possibly have been going through his head??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been good friends with this guy for the last two years since working with him on a political campaign. We're now in college together, and he says he considers me to be one of his very best friends. He'd often tell me about the fact that he was a 22- (now 24-)year-old ... (1189 words)

We're in a phase where we argue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Needing help with my boyfriend and i. We have been together 9 months and in my heart i believe i love him. We have known each other since last summer and really hit it off, he was so sweet and kind and we never fought. We finaly got together in the begining of january and ... (180 words)

Love my best friend but he's unsure about his sexual identity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best mate told me he was gay about 6 months ago now. It was really hard for me to take as I've fancied him for ages. I've finally accepted there is nothing I can do about it. But then tonight he's said he doesn't think he wants to be gay anymore. Again this is hard for me!! ... (144 words)

His decision to join the army makes me feel like I'm losing him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is that I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, and we are so very deep in love. We know we want to spend the rest of our lives together, despite how young we are. But, he is planning on joining the army and I can't stand the thought of going months and ... (184 words)

My ex who dumped me is now drinking excessively! what can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex has started going out drinking since our breakup, she very rarely drank alcohol before we broke up and now she's out doing it a lot. I care about her still, as much as I want to move on, I kinda don't want her out doing stupid things, she's hanging around with different ... (95 words)

No erection during sex.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I began dating a boy about three months ago, he's 18 and I'm 19, and during this time we've fooled around and he was never able to ejaculate with me, but could through masturbation. Clearly, this threw me off, but as we continued to work at it, he finally ejaculated from my ... (145 words)

Why does my friend always behave like this?? should I dump her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i told my friend i would come for a sleep over.. but my cousins wife lost her baby:( so i had to go and see her.. it was very emotional when i went.. she lives 2hours away from me.. and the trains are not running so had to take the bus. so i told my best friend i ca... (228 words)

After 25 years of no contact,can he be 100% trustworthy?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age - Twenty-five years ago, I fell in love with a Turkish man, and he with me I believe. He was very kind and very protective of me. After 3-4 months, he took me to meet his entire family in two different cities. And he asked me to marry him. I had been married before and I panicked ... (522 words)

Does this mean he's in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a cousin who i think is in love with me but am not too sure. last time he saw me, he looked at me with some weird expression. when we chat online he always call me sweetheart, honey ,...even when he text me. in front of my cousins, he very often said that am his gf ... (68 words)

Anyone have any special techniques to help me with our sexual problem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some advice from guys and girls about my new bf. We've had sex twice, and he is pretty amazing...his focus is on pleasuring me, and although we do have penetrative intercourse, his stamina is amazing, and he has never actually orgasmed because we both get so ... (143 words)

Question about cheating in a marriage..all answers welcome!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the main reason a man would cheat o his wife or girlfriend? Especially married men! :) and What would be the main reason for a woman to cheat on her husband or boyfriend? Especially married woman! :)... (41 words)

I avoid the neighbors where I live...and I feel guilty! Any Advice?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F) - I am in my mid twenties and living at home..it has always been somewhat stressful though..the apartment is too small at times and my parents can get loud. Sometimes things are such a big issue and stupid arguments happen and the walls are thin. So i am sure people in the ... (337 words)

Married but I had sex with another guy and I don't feel guilt! Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Im not sure if this is a question or me just wanting feedback here goes I've been married for almost 11 years. After our first year, my husband told me he had a fantasy which was having a threesome mfm. he wanted to see me with another guy. I was pissed, here it is my second m... (216 words)

Do I leave my marriage for someone else I love? I'm frightened but want to.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been seeing a man who keeps trying to drag me out of my relationship of marriage. I am unhappy, undersexed and completely dissatisfied in my marriage. The problem is im in love with the new/old guy, actually an old guy from middle school. i want to leave my unhappy marriage ... (69 words)

How do I take this odd situation, with this girl I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How to take this situation? If you've known someone (a girl) that you like for a short time, say 2-3 months. Who you saw a couple times a week through work places, and you texted back and forth everyday. Then you finally tell them you like them. And they basically reject y... (129 words)

I broke up with first love but don't know how to move on

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my long term boyfriend about 6 months ago because i had completely lost myself in the relationship due to his manipulative ways. I knew he wasn't happy in himself and with these insecurities came bad behaviour which i learnt to accept because i was young and so ... (341 words)

His family won't come to the wedding on the date we've planned

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i have been planning a wedding he refused to tell his parents from the beginning because he was afraid of their response since his mother doesn't like me much. we asked his aunt to tell his dad about the plans and his dad has said the whole family will be away at ... (149 words)

Does breast feeding mess up your breasts?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well i heard that breast feeding messes up your nipples like makes them not soft any more and stuff and that they wont go back to normal is that true?... (31 words)

Can I divorce him or get an annulment? What about property?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I separated, we've been married under a year. we married in march this year, I want a divorce. I have two questions. 1. can I divorce him now? Or get an annulment? 2. I want to buy a property within the next 2months, if I buy the property will my husband be ab... (112 words)

Is distance really an issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been on and off for this guy for almost 4 years now, our major problem is that he lives 1200 miles away because he is in the military. I am head over heels in love with this man and want to see if we can make it work now that we both have grown a lot over the last 9 ... (185 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. Within the first year he was always kissing me, cuddling me, etc....but now he barely comes near me. It's ME who's always going to HIM, i've tried that thing where 'you let them come to you' but i like affection AND it didn't ... (144 words)

High maintainence and too demanding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend never seems to understand why I get frustrated when he is constantly late to meet me somewhere etc. It may seem like I pick at little things but I'm not just talking minutes late, I'm talking hours. Now, I'm certain that he loves me, and when we're together it's ... (88 words)

My father is cheating on my mom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, well i think i have found my dad cheating on my mum!!! over the past few yrs his behaviour has become worse, he treats all of us at home basically like s**t!!! he is horrible to my mum often at times not talkin to her. anyways bout 2 months ago someone rang the house fo... (203 words)

Found out 2 weeks before his wedding there was someone else and I am still seeing him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am seeing this man for coming 4 yrs, after one yr together I found out he was cheating on me, the other girl mailed me some of their pics together. I confranted him, he cried n beg me to forgive him n I did and he promised that he will end the relationship with her and he ... (296 words)

My ex tried to commit suicide and I don't want to talk to her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-girl friend tried to commit suicide. she has been through a lot in her life and said she wanted to give up. I told her thats not the answer. When she calls i barely speak to her because im upset and mad at her and dont wanna speak. she asks if im every gonna go back to ... (122 words)

I cheated and don't feel guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. the first year of our relationship i was really good to him, and i guess you can say i was stupid too.. i didn't party or have any guy friends, i told him everything, i did whatever he said to make him happy. I spent about ... (384 words)

Husband's emails to co-worker making me very sad

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age - I recently saw an email on my husbands phone it was to a female coworker. My heart dropped. He had sent her 30 emails in one day. Some casual chitchat some playful banter and some sexual enudios. I asked him about it.. he denied it and said he was doing nothing wrong and he ... (86 words)

When is the best time us to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a quandary. I've been going out with my girlfriend now for several years. Sometimes things are good, but a lot of the time I just want to end the relationship. It's been so long I'm not sure I love her any more. I just can't see a future together and know that a... (194 words)

I have scared off my LDR boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - i feel i have scard my man away, we are in a LDR been with each other over a year and half now, well commited see each other best we can when we can, he has texted me every t break and dinner break while at work, and spoke to me every night on msn since we met, when we are ... (395 words)

Does weight matter to men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does weight matter to men? I am 5 feet 6.5 inches and i wear a size 15 pants. (i dont know what i weigh but i think i am about 180) So tell honestly do men care about weight?... (39 words)

Going to homecoming without boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright, so homecoming is next week. My boyfriend, who is a senior, asked me. I am a sophomore. I said yes. He's done a lot for me, so I thought it'd be cute to ask him too- well I did and he said yess. We've been dating for three months. We fight a lot, and yesterday he told ... (287 words)

FWB ex--how do I remove myself from this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy friend of mine has been making life pretty tricky for me, especially recently. He has a reputation and i've been told by people in the past that he's a "dog". When we were both single we did sleep together a few times, this was a while ago though. One day i confessed to ... (331 words)

Girlfriend started crying after 1st time sex and now still won't talk to me about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I've been dating an incredible girl for about 2.5 years. She's a year younger than me, so I'm in college and she's in high school. When we first started dating, she was a virgin and I wasn't. We agreed to wait until she was ready and the time was right. When I moved into my ... (410 words)

I Don't Fit the Mold

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Because of a chronic illness I have, I have been forced to move in with my parents. I am 26-years-old. I want SO BADLY to be independent, but it is near impossible as I am not able to work enough to be independent. My parents have helped me out quite a bit financially, but are ... (511 words)

I thought I would be married and have children by now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i live in a little village not many single women everybody has someone either wife or girlfriend. i've tryed online dating. i see everybody kissing each other or holding hands. i'm getting frustrated and lonely.with no woman to call my own. not one woman in my little town will ... (89 words)

How can I show, that I am thinking of him, and he doesn't misconstrue the gesture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. One of my male friends is having a hard time at home at the moment. He is looking after his sick mother and it is getting him down. I know being ill can make you curmudgeonly and impatient, but she treats him like he is her slave. There is only him that can help cos she ... (338 words)

What does "this week is shot for me" mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Meaning of the phrase "this week is shot for me!" Does anyone know what is meant when someone says "This week is shot for me!" Is it used often? I have never heard the phrase before and wonder if it is some type of an English idiom. I got the feeling the the person impli... (70 words)

How do I tell my girlfriend I like her sister instead of her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hii, My question is How can I tell my girlfriend that I dont like her anymore I like her younger sister and also How can I say or propose to her sister? to be honest I have never had sex with my Gf :S yeh its true.. :(... (49 words)

My friends ignored me and talk behind my back to everyone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My friends treat me in a mean way, they even ignored me and go around talking behind my back. They go with another group and talk behind my back, and assume that it's my fault for how they are acting. I really didnt know what's going on and i know that i did nothing wrong. ... (104 words)

I get paranoid when my boyfriend is away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please please help . I've been with my boyfriend for a year and he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with . He treats me so well , but the thing is he works away and I can't bare it. When he's not hear I feel lonely and when he's out I'm so paranoid that he will ... (111 words)

"scratch my turntable"?? What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my and ex and I have been not getting along lately until last night he emailed me after he told me that he was sick of me bragging and then said if i wanted to date others all i want peace..now today he emailed me saying I was right and he wants to scratch my turn table? what ... (68 words)

Do I leave my wack job wife and take the kids with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - cant stand the wife but love my 2 kids, 12 an 7. we fight a lot an i know this is not healthy for the kids. when i leave she says lie's to the children to try to win them over. my 12 yr. old tells me the things that she says. cant stand it any more...she is becoming unbearable ... (158 words)

What can I do with mean firends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my friends (3 of them), suddenly turns their back on me. and when something happened to me, they laughed at me without helping. they told everyone how i talk behind their back and judge people on their looks. but i didn't, the other friend told me and i was just being nice and... (96 words)

When he just wants to get into your pants...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Simple question: how do you know when a guy just wants to get in your pants? What are the sure fire signs?... (22 words)

Do you think we should keep things the way they are or make it public ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend is 1 year and 6 months younger then me.I dont seem to have a problem with thay but other people might. We've bee together for 7 months now, it started as a joke but now its getting serious we even said I love you to each other. I can't go a day without talking ... (156 words)

Husband blames me for everything!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 20 months is what I think is verbally abusive towards me, he calls me a s**g, b***h, w***e, thick, stupid, dumb, joke, f**k up, failure, pathetic. But he says he wouldn't call me any of these things if I didn't ignore him which he says makes him loose his temper. ... (714 words)

Should I wish my ex-Gf on her birthday

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF dumped 3 weeks ago me for reasons Which I am not sure about. She gave reasons of long distance relationship(past 6 months) and different thinking. I tried to sort out the issues but had no luck. we were in relationship for more than 5 years. Last night I heard she has new ... (149 words)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, were taking things at a fairly relaxed pace and we both have really busy schedules so time together is limited at times but in all honesty I do like doing my own thing and im not a needy or clingy type of person. I saw him ea... (175 words)

What the hell is she thinking? Am I just paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been through a lot. We've been together for 2.5 years and we're both 20. Back in May we broke up (although she thinks we broke up in April) and we were apart for three weeks. After getting back together things were different. Prior to our breakup ... (1623 words)

Attack of the promises sigh*

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has become more honest, but my question is how come after she's promised to never/stop drink again, I fell for it ni believed her. We have been together for 7 months and been through too much at this point. My questio: how come I felt so bad and hurt I cried ov... (94 words)

Why does it hurt when having sex? Or is to big?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well every time me and my husband have sex and he puts all his penis in it hurts alot I feel like if he's touching something that it hurts why is that? Does somebody have that, Or what is it?... (40 words)

FWB moved on to a relationship, but came back and cheated with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i'm going to try and make this as short as posible. A had a FWB/buddy, this ended and he now is with somebody. This is the bad part, we had sex a couple on months ago, so basicaly he cheated. Since then i've tried distancing myself from him, he doesn't like close by so that ... (167 words)

I don't want my friend to become anorexic like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need some friendship advice. I am anorexic, but I've been recovering and now I'm basically at a healthy weight, although my mind hasn't really been sorted yet. But I have a friend, who now thinks she's fat. She isn't fat (she is slightly heavier than me and some of our ... (206 words)

I am not in love with my pregnant girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend is pregnant with my baby but im not n love with her but i really wana be there for my baby wat should i do im thinkn of breakn up with her but don't know how or when. plus she's kind of depending on me rite now as far as finance goes. but she says she really love ... (99 words)

He's been asking for a divorce but since I've decided yes, he has changed his mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm taking some time off of my 2 year marriage, ever since we were boyfriend and girlfriend relationship has been full of drama, he's always been very jealous and all our arguments get very very bad, like he's always too proud to accept when he's wrong and starts ... (256 words)

Is 30 days long enough to be serious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - recently crossed paths with an old high school friend. our first date was over to meet the family. on last week he stated he wanted me to meet his son who is 17 years old and does not live with him. also he has told me about his financial history. he calls me at least 2-3 ... (96 words)

His behaviour did not change when he was told I like him as more than a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I fell for one of my best guy friends a year ago, and things have been interesting. I was going to tell my friend (We'll call him "Nick") about my feelings, but something got in the way and I didn't have the appropriate timing. Feeling frustrated and annoyed,... (166 words)

She dumped me because I failed to make plans for the future

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 3 years has just dumped me. I'm 34 and she is 28. I cheated on her once, and it came out at the start of the year. I had also failed to make any concrete plans to move in (start living) with her, or mention marriage / kids. She was crying her eyes out, but said ... (222 words)

My boyfriend flirts and stares at other women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age - my boyfrien flirts and stares at other women i really dont know what to do i love him but because he does that i dont trust him our sexual life is suffering because of that.Should i worry about those things ... (40 words)

Will I be alone for ever?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 in 2 months i will be 23. I am divorced (i got married at 16) and a single mom of 3. I have been alone so long and i cant even get a guy to look at me. I have done all of the stuff people have told me. (be yourself go out stop looking...) But it doesnt work. Will i be ... (73 words)

Too many choices, I don't know what to do~

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. So my situation is complicated. My girlfriend I've been dating for about a month now broke up with me because we lived so far away, went to different schools, and barely got to be together. Well we still both have feelings for each other, and we said that if somehow things ... (222 words)

He says he loves me too much to leave so why am I so confused

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

2 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i had previously gotten some advice bcuz my bf cant get over my past which i cheated on my ex husband he says i will always b a cheater and at times puts me down.. he is hurt at the fact that i wuz not the girl he expected me to be... but i think he judges me to harshly for ... (309 words)

Did I wait too long before asking her out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

2 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I'm in need of a little insight on this. There is a lot of details to explain, so this might get a little long. First the details of her past. She's going through/has been through a tough time with a break up. She was in love with the guy but things just didn... (421 words)

My husband wants me to have sex in a brothel

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2 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 8 months wants to take me to Los Vegas to have sex at a BROTHEL. I am not sure why he stated that during sex. There is nothing I have said or done to make him think I am into threesomes. He brought this up during sex which now makes me feel like he wants either ... (317 words)

Is her new relationship a rebound and will she come back to me?

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2 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have recently broken up, about 2 weeks ago, and it's been pretty hard. And she has a new boyfriend that she met while she was involved with me. I know that we both loved each other towards the end of the relationship but the main reason she states that we ... (160 words)

He wont introduce me to his family or friends because I am black

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2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dunno what to do.Been with a guy 8 months and it feels like he loves me and I think I love him but some things freak me out. Like I think hes ashamed of me cause I'm younger and I'm black. He doesn't mind taking me out but he lives with his family and he told me he was sorry he ... (174 words)

Why are women attracted to guys with fancy cars?

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2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are women more attracted to men with fancy cars than men with raggedy cars? Does it really matter and why?... (21 words)

I am bored with my boyfriend and he is embaressing as well

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2 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to have second opinions on my relationship...I've had a boyfriend for 2 months. Two days after we met we went on our first date and have been together since then, but I honestly don't know that much about him. On the bright side he's very caring and polite to my ... (131 words)

Every time we kiss he gets a stiffy... normal?

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2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Whenever we kiss...he gets a stiffy...I understand he's excited but every time? Is this normal?... (15 words)

I don't want to be a virgin at thirty!

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2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old female...I am pretty, friendly, have lots of guy friends....and most people don't believe me when I say that I am still a virgin. I mainly fear because I am overweight that no guy will be attracted to me. I used to be thin and fit but due to health problems, ... (127 words)

Pregnant with another man's baby but wants me to be the father

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2 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my ex girlfriend moved back in together, after breaking up pretty badly our first go around, i believe in my heart dearly that she cheated on me during our relationship, not even 24 hours of us breaking up she had another man in our apartment.during our breakup she slept ... (155 words)

I want to know if she is still interested

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2 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here is the deal. So there is this girl I have been talking to for a week or so. We hung out together for the first 3 nights in a row, 2nd night we slept together. I know she wanted to because we were just making out and then she practically ripped my clothes off. She ... (260 words)

To me it seems I am being selfish

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2 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There was someone in my life who I am better off moving on from, but I cannot seem to get her out of my head. Additionally, I feel like cutting off contact with her may have hurt her because she has self-proclaimed abandonment issues. I was obsessed with her, thinking of... (172 words)

I called her an 'attention whore" & now she is planning her revenge

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2 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Recently i had an exchange of words with a girl who i am seeing for about 7 months but we are not committed. I know i said some harsh things but its only because i care for her and even though i tried explaining this recently, she wouldnt respond. Today i saw on her twitter ... (454 words)

I am pregnant again yet when things go wrong he spits on me and runs home to his momma

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2 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have been in this marriage for 4 1/2 years and we have been together a year before we married i love him sometmes i ask my self why because of how he acts like a spoiled 31 yr old brat we have 2 kids and i have 1 child from a highschool relationship who is 13 well the most ... (343 words)

Some of his stories just don't add up!

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2 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello So I'm having some issues lately with trusting my boyfriend. Some background: we've been together for about six months, i'm 24 he's 23 - things usually are great! he treats me well, he's very sweet, and loves me a great deal. my problem: i always try to avoid the bad in a... (448 words)