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writes:i am 20 right now, and i used to be dating my best friends sister which he was fine with, but then one day for no reason at all she decided she wasnt interested in me anymore and i was left heart broken, i loved her so much and for the next month after that i tried getting her back in different ways, but then after a while she just came out and told me to stop trying she dosnt want to be with me, its been a few weeks since then and we are friends right now, i see her almost every weekend when i visit my best friend, and we get on pretty well except that a small part of me hasnt gotten over her yet, its not enough for me to make a move especially since ive failed so many times now but in the end all i want is to have her back with me, ive decided to give it time and i know i cant afford to waste time waiting for it to come back but im so confused and hurt about iti just need some advice on what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): You're welcome! Sometimes that's all it takes. I know it's hard when all you want is to be with her and show her what a wonderful person you are. That usually doesn't work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks both of you, i knew thats exactly what i needed to do i just wanted to hear it from someone else :)
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reader, happy24birthday  +, writes (4 October 2010):
 Stop pursuing her. Stop going to your friend's house so much. Stay away from her as much as you can and try your best to focus on something else. She will come back to you if she wants to, and the best way to see if that's what she wants is to remove yourself from her life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): Give up, move on, you can't 'win someone back' and if she initiated the breakup and she's been steadfast in her opinion, you are screwed.
If that means you have to stop visiting your friend to help you with dealing with it.... then so be it.
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