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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know she loves me very much as a friend but I'm not sure she can love her at the same level as I love her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, just in need of some quick advice. It might some pathetic or complex but I'd appreciate any feedback I get. I'm in love with my best friend. I withstrain with saying infatuated because I'm not obsessed with her, and I genuinely care about her feelings and wit... (481 words)

I just lost the love of my life... how do I get over him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I just lost the love of my life I'm so sad. I can't believe he said we should go our own way. I feel dead, my heart is broken. I really love him. How do I get over him? ... (39 words)

Am I being taken for granted or am I just seeking for too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My fiance who I have been for with 7 years is a nice guy but I do not know if he really cares about me. He has forgotten by birthday twice, does not buy me things unless I ask and never comments to me about looking pretty or anything. Even my engagement ring is pretty cheap ... (139 words)

Should I text again or just leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I met a girl yesterday through a mutual friend and I like her, am quite sure she was flirting with me but not 100%. I thought things were going well but now she hasnt text back, is she just playing 'hard to get'? I've texted her twice and she hasn't responded. Should I text ... (86 words)

Threesomes... good or bad idea???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you think.... threesomes, good or bad idea?? in general! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and our sex life is just fine, we still have just as much sex now as when we first started out but if im being honest, I would kinda like to try a threesome ... (257 words)

Can 6 inches be satisfying to women who have been with very well-endowed men?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My penis is only about 6 inches long on a good day, but have decent girth at about 5.5-6.0 inches. I need an honest answer from women if you think this is enough to be satisfying if you've been with well endowed men before. I'm older, and encountering a lot of women who have ... (197 words)

How to really ease into the relationship again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We were in a time of "space that he wanted". It has been 1 month now. He has talked tome briefly, he is taking it slow. I had plans already before all this happened and got a job and am moving next week. Last time I talked with him he was very happy that I was working now ... (129 words)

Do you also believe that how he cheated on me and how I cheated on him is the same?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband have been married for a year now! I got pregnant when we had been together for like 8 months and 3 months later we got married. The thing is, when we had just started dating, about a month in the relationship I cheated (had sex) on him with my ex boyfriend, ... (372 words)

What do I say to him when we meet tomorrow to talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys im sorry if this is a little long but you need to know the full storry to understand. my best friend is a guy and he likes me, hes liked me for over a year and about 2 month ago he asked me out and i ended up saying yes because i thought that i have nothing to lose by ... (369 words)

Should I ask her to be my girlfriend on her birthday or is this too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I've finally met this girl at my very first party, she's 2 years younger than me and we pretty much hitting it off. It's her first time too, so we are so new to this whole thing. Anyway, I got her # and drive her home after the party... I really like her, and I pretty... (176 words)

Should I just approach him and tell him I'm ready for more???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been "talking" to this person for approximately a year an a half but are and have always been in a grey area. As time progressed, things have gotten a lot better in that he is no longer afraid of people seeing us together or thinking that we have a relationship. Mind you ... (378 words)

Any tips on how I can start talking to him naturally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have huge crush on a guy but the problem is i never see him on a night out so i never get the chance to get talkng to him. I met him briefly a few weeks ago and i got the impression he might like me too.We are from neighbouring towns and have a lot of friends in common ... (95 words)

Am I a gal pal???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I hope this will clear things up to show I am a good guy. A girl texed me last weekend and asked if I could be there for her at this party. I said sure anything you need. I didn't have anything to drink and protected her from other drunk guys. It wasn't even a fair ... (272 words)

Crush gone wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, well, I need some advice on this guy. You see I liked him for a long time, sometimes he used to give me small signals that he liked me. He would try hard to get as close as he could to me. (That means outside my personal space bubble, or not in my personal space for very ... (181 words)

I'm wondering if its stupid or foolish in a sense that I'm 'waiting' for another chance at 'us'.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - to make a long story short, i was in a relationship with this guy for about a year. in the beginning, i lied to him about my past, which really hurt him and tainted the relationship. we took a 'break' after that, and since then we've been in this weird 'friends with benefits' ... (395 words)

Why does sex hurt so much when I'm on top?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so im 16 years old and sexually active, but theres a problem and i dont know if its normal or what should i do. whenever me and my bf are having sex and he is on top it doesn't hurt me at all not one bit, But then when he tells me to get on top its absolutely pain-full the ... (89 words)

How do I lose 30 pounds by March?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay this is a REALLY stupid question but i felt like asking it anyways. I met this boy and I like him a lot. of course he has a girl friend. we have a lot in common and im just wondering if he likes me... see stupid huh? well his little brother likes me. anyways he kept ... (146 words)

He asked me why I broke up with him. Should I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing a man for just 7 weeks. After spending more and more time with him, I realized that he makes rude comments, says condescending things, interrupts conversations to be self-promoting, and is generally more antagonizing than empathizing in conversations. He g... (161 words)

Does this mean I'm fat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well me and this guy got together over a year ago, He wasn't a virgin, he lost his virginity to a slightly over weight girl. which I didn't mind at first. I was a virgin but later in our relationship I lost my virginity to him. I'm not perfect, I'm a little chunky, not ... (211 words)

Do women view penis size as a sign of worthiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - A real quick question - Men are very sensitive about penis size, women not too bothered about it, which seems to suggest its a man made issue and often when you read answers about does size matter women will answer size doesn't matter - its how you use it, the tongue can be ... (240 words)

Newly returned to the dating scene -- how to intoduce a "friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age - i'm divorced and have been out of the dating scene for quite a while. i am 50 y.o. i have a girlfriend so do i introduce her as my girlfriend, or my lady friend? she introduced me as her man friend. im new to this since being divorced.... (48 words)

Still feeling horny for my cousin, even although I now have my own girlfriend... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My cousin is my first love. She didn love me. But, we did make out twice. We were close. I moved on. That was three years back. I met this girl in college. I am 21, she s 20. She s not hot or have a body that everyone will crave but she is cute lookin and she is best person i ... (171 words)

Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

30 October 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Ladies, what is the perfect duration for sex for you? By that, I mean from the time penetration starts till he comes...so excluding foreplay and stuff. If you like it long, do you expect him to get it up again soon? For those who like minutemen, do you expect him to ... (210 words)

One-time FWB seems to be behaving differently -- am I reading too much into it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I was recently talking to a male friend, who used to be a kind of FWB, so to speak. That started when we met up after getting back in touch on a social networking site. This casual thing lasted about 6 months or so, we saw each other maybe 5 or 6 times during that time. We last ... (404 words)

2 years, and we don't have good sex anymore. What can I do to improve the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

- My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few days short of 2 years. We live in seperate cities, and both have fairly busy lives between work and social lives, so we only usually see each other on weekends and occasional public holidays. We skype each other every night we don't ... (172 words)

How do you get somebody OFF your mind?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I understand this might be a bit of a strange question and hard to answer so any types of responses will be appreciated :) I was just wondering how you stop thinking about someone. I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and we don't have anymore contact with eac... (143 words)

Who is the bad guy now between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I spent the night with my bf last night. We just see each other twice a month as it would be expensive if we see each other on a weekly basis but we chat, call and text everyday. He lives 2 hrs away. Here's the thing, when we met, he had just started a relationship wit... (514 words)

Quick sex, no Frenching

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why does my husband like quick sex but does not like to french kiss. Only to have his few minutes of fun and that is it. ... (29 words)

He calls me horrible names

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys im kind of new at this thing but i really need an outside perspective. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and half now. when he gets mad at me he calls me some horrible names ex:lard ass,bitch,exc.. and it makes me feel so low idk what to do.i ... (124 words)

Should I ask her out? I'm having trouble with doing it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a girl I know that I like. I think she liked me like a month ago but I'm really bad at that stuff and didn't really think. Anyway, I want to tell her I like her as more than a friend But I'm having trouble with that. This girl is great. She has a lotta things in ... (225 words)

Shouldn't she just trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im seeing this girl now for 6 months now and we really get on well, we cant believe how things are after happening so quick but we didnt try slow them down because everything feels right. but latey we are having a few little arguments. when we are toghter everything couldnt be ... (354 words)

How to make friends when you can't trust anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - After a big fight in high school, I've never been able to trust anyone aside from my mom. I thought I was great friends with a group of people from high school, but one of them got angry with me for trying to stop a fight between her and another girl. I didn't want to t... (351 words)

Girlfriend not interested is sex any more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been with my girlfriend on and off for about 8 years, and we have a 5 year old daughter together. We have been back together now about 8 months, and I am making a very sincere effort to work things out this time around. She had wanted to get married to me almost from t... (1093 words)

Do I just kiss and say goodby to this man, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age - hello,im a 46 year old woman on disability, less than $7,00.oo a month, and im in this relationship with a man 66 years old. he shows his love when im with him, i mean the kissing, holding me, telling me how happy he is to have me, but theres 1 thing that i dont understand, im ... (211 words)

Anyone have any advice on how to better my sex life with my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I'm new to this. My fiance and I have been together almost 2 years now. When we started out, we constantly on a regular daily basis would have sex. After about six months things started to calm down we would go from every day to 3-4 times a week. and now its like we don't ... (150 words)

Mixed signals... or false hope?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf boke up with me after one year and 5 months. We never had a real fight a couple disagreements but other than that always had agreat time together. I let him get to know my children and now it is over, cause he said he is scared, confused and says he can't get hisself to ... (280 words)

I think I'm hanging on to hope here purely because of the 25 years I've known this person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - In January this year an old friend from university came back into my life - we met up for a drink and had a lovely evening together. A week later he called and said he'd love to see me again, but not as a friend. I was really shocked but flattered. I said I hoped this was not a ... (1271 words)

Does my cousin love me or just lust over me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi cupid, i know my story is a bit long. but please go through it. i really needs your help. thanks in advance peeps! :* i have a cousin, my mother's cousin's son!! lets call him Sam. he is 24. i am quite close to him but not that close that he will share his personal ... (515 words)

My boyfriend was naked with his cousin in our bed!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been with each other for 8 months. we asked his cousins to come play cards and they did. we all got totally wasted on vodka and beer and they were takinh pills. well i passed out in the next room and i woke up wondering were my bf was. well i go to our bedroom ... (113 words)

Do men really get stuck emotionally between two women? Looking for male answers but females are welcome

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men really get stuck and can't choose between two women? If you have been in this situation please share. Who did you ultimately choose and why?... (29 words)

My husband wont talk to me. Every time we have words he will stop speaking to me for months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband wont talk to me. Every time we have words he will stop speaking to me for months. He comes in from work and goes straight upstairs, makes his own tea, cleans his own plates etc. When i try an talk to his he just swears at me. Theres a lot of issues between us. He ... (178 words)

Is this the G spot or something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - When I put my finger inside my girlfriend's vagina and move it along the front wall, the first (i.e. closest to the opening to the vagina) thing I feel is a bit of an uneven or rough patch that is perhaps three-quarters of an inch wide by one inch long. This spot seems to be ... (473 words)

Daughter in law rules the roost!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age - Suffering mother in law My daughter in law just wants my son and not me at all. Latest is to day both grandparents present and the 2 grandmothers did the cradle fun ceremony and were ready to leave town. She gave the baby to all 3 grandparents to hold one by one and not to m... (303 words)

My best friend has broken up with him and I would love to be with him... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there I like this boy, i mean i really like him and we are good friends but my best friend was actually going out with him and i felt guilty about liking him . . but my best friend knew that i liked him and she said she was ok about it but i knew she wasnt. Now they hav... (92 words)

My friend doesn't seem to want to share "her" friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - So. A few months ago I was at a party and talking to this guy who I had spoken to a few times before. Previously I had never even clocked him as a potential crush but there was just this moment that I realised I liked him. I saw him around a few times after that and we comm... (367 words)

Did I deserve this treatment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have to admit that Im fuming at the moment. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half because of many reasons, but a few of them is his anger-issues and that he could never give me what I needed. So, I want it settled once and for all, if he really has a right to ... (742 words)

He claims he can't be in a relationship right now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 2,5 years. We were even engaged. I'm 24, this guy just turned 23. Evert hing was perfect for the first 2 years. We fought like normal couples do. Sometimes fights were over nothing, sometimes a little more severe. There ar... (729 words)

Is my logic here correct?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age - Recently I has a conversation with the man I've been involved with for quite some time. The topic was as to why he disappears for extended periods of time for no apparent reason. The end result was him telling me that when things got too emotionally intense and too close fo... (120 words)

I've never been friends with a girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 17 years old, i have never been freinds with girls. nor have i ever had a girl freind. there is this girl in my class whos number i have. i talk to her via sms and msn. other than this, i do not talk to her in school. i feel shy approaching her. i know her for about ov... (95 words)

My boyfriend is flirting with his ex girlfriend... what do I do here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi this is my first time using this and it's probably because I want to hear other people's opinion on this and might help me. okay so here it goes. I've caught him (boyfriend) before during valentines day, he gave his ex girlfriend the same cake that he gave me and that's not ... (143 words)

Could this guy have liked me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Could this guy have liked me? I went to a pub last night, and he looked at me a few times. When my friend, who was sat next to me was talking, he leaned sideways to look at me a couple of times (he was sat on another table and my friend was blocking his view some of the time ... (250 words)

I am now in my 20s, and I still get petrified at the thought of getting pregnant...!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I have a question about sex, I am now in my 20s, and I still get petrified at the thought of getting pregnant and i know how my body works and i keep track of my cycle and all, but recently me and my bf of 2 years had sex without a condom for the 1st time, and my period had ... (161 words)

I don't understand why he has stayed when he has no love in his heart for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age - Hi I am in the strangest relationship i have ever been in. This man is married but please no telling me i am a home wrecker because that is not the case here, I have been in this relationship for many years this man doesn't love me but he knows i love him, as a matter of fact ... (317 words)

He's too good for me but I'm really beginning to fall!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He's too good for me but I'm really beginning to fall! Here's the deal I've just finished my first year in uni and met this guy. I'd rate myself as average looking and of average intelligence. But his guy he just came from Korea last year, looks like a Korean superstar and ... (214 words)

I really like this guy but he totally ignores me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy but he totally ignores me. we used to talk and be good friends but then he just left this friendship and started doing the same to other girls. i dont think anything like what happened to me happened to them but i want him to start talking to me and of ... (108 words)

How do I talk with my mom after her stomping out of my house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - there has always been tension between my mom and my husband because he is 2 yrs older than her. she hates him 4 that which in turn makes him dislike her too. last night after dark as soon as our dinner was done my parents made an unannouced visit. they played with the kids ... (215 words)

I feel that I do not want to offer a man anything else apart from sex as this is all that I feel that I require.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Readers, I would like to ask for some advice please and am very appreciative of advice I have had in the past. I have been in contact with a guy in Sydney for the last 2 years. To cut to the chase it started off as him being very interested in communicating wi... (747 words)

I'm not sure what to do because I really like her and I think she really likes me. Any ideas???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Yesterday me and four others went to fright night two girls and four boys in total. Basically it's twelve hours in Thorpe park. Okay so let's call the people; Emma Shannon Daniel Will and Aaron. So basically Emma and Daniel have known each other . Emma and Shannon are popular ... (438 words)

Was he letting me down gently???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I had a one night stand, the next morning there was no awkwardness he wanted sex again but I decided against it, but told him I was up for meting up again just for sex(I did like him but didnt want to appear too keen!). He was very affectionate cuddling and kissing ask... (168 words)

I took photos of his girlfriend's underwear and now he's found them! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i was cheated my friend who was done some good things for me but now i m feeling guilty one and half year ago i was leaving with my friend and sharing a flat in building. his girl frnd was my girl frnd's sister and so we were as group (girls were not shareing same flat wit... (308 words)

How do I get to her without coming over too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've known a girl for some time and we do seem to share some chemistry. Now, I am great around her at parties with her friends and I have managed to befriend all her friends (to a level where most of them count me among their good friend). I tease her all the time when we are ... (148 words)

What should be my next move in order to restore some sort of sanity in my life because I feel myself breaking apart in anger and distrust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright I am not really sure where to begin because I feel that it is truly lost forever due to the fact that I have put forth a valiant effort in rekindling a four year relationship and my two year old daughter's future of mommy and daddy being together. She left me back in ... (422 words)

Complicated... a married woman, a dance partner and my love of dance !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age - This is COMPLICATED !!! I'm a dancer, I dance on stage as a demonstrator to an instructor teaching others how to dance, I'm very popular because I have a sense of humour and I'm very strong ! (don't consider myself attractive) I am in a position where, as they say "I coul... (1402 words)

I'm tired of faking that I'm ok when I'm not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, lately i've been having low-self esteem issues, anxiety, and paranoia. I'm 15 and had a crush on a guy friend, I was so sure he liked me but we went to a downtown area with a group of friends and my other friend set him up with this girl. After she got there I tried ta... (214 words)

I trusted him completely and all he wanted was sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age - Hello All~Thank You beforehand for taking the time to view and possibly extend me a bit of advice. I befriended an individual on an online dating site who I had come to trust at the highest level that I had ever trusted. With tour very first conversation and at various times... (534 words)

I never thought I'd be in this situation caring when he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need some advice... I just recently divorced my husband of 2 years. Because of that and some other reasons I moved to another city to start my life all over. This is a city where I've had lived before and have some friends. The thing is I'm kind of seeing t... (283 words)

Getting a teen age boy's attention

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What can a 14yr old girl do to get the complete attention of her 15yr old boyfriend... (17 words)

He acts like he hates me and I don't want to keep begging him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,my boyfriend broke up with me about two weeks ago after an 8 month relationship. He said it was better for both of us. Lately we've been having lots of arguments and he has anger management issues.At the beginning of this month, he slapped me because of something i said, but ... (332 words)

Guy is always confused about who he likes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the summer this boy (Lucas), who used to like my friend, added me on facebook. He asked me to hang out with him and he was really nice so I agreed. He started to like me, and I liked him, but then I went to Europe for a few weeks and stopped contact with him. After school ... (502 words)

Best friend's wife took him away from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

30 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Life a bitch sometimes hi I've known my best friend for 8 years I've always been there for him for better or worse I'm not gay by the way I have a girlfriend lol but I'm just trying to make a point when I said for better or worse. We were so close like really close I used to ... (471 words)

All I want is one good time together with this married man

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a man who works at my school who is a good bit older than me but I can honestly say I dont think ive ever wanted to sleep with someone more. I know he is attracted to me but he is married. I just need to know how to tell him. i barely see him and all I want is one good ... (95 words)

In love with straight best friend. How do I tell her?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my bi sexual best friend. I love this girl more then life itself and we're like sisters, refrai not we've cried together and basicly rely on eachother more then anything. At the moment shes going out with a guy who I don't really care for but I'm waiting till ... (66 words)

How do I interpret that? Help me please?

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30 October 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Well two years ago, when I was in middle school, I had this teacher named mrs. Blonde.(cover up name)For some reason during the year I caught this urge to learn more about her and her morals and values. After seeing them,i develloped sort of an atraction to her. You know how a ... (145 words)

I like sniffing ladies dirty panties

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I like sniffing womens dirty panties and i dont know if i am normal.Am afraid that if my girlfriend finds out she will leave me.Ladies if you find your man sniffing your dirty panties will you leave him.... (38 words)

The thought of being with other guys literally makes me nauseous.

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Though my best friends are guys, any other guy in my life has been . I mention these early things because though I take ownership of my bad decisions, things that happened had a profound effect on who I am now. I am sorry it’s so long but it was like a leak-I couldn’t stop it ... (1701 words)

I may have jealousy problems and I need help/advice.

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I may have jealousy problems and I need help/advice. I have a boyfriend who has never had a girlfriend before. So that means I am his first girlfriend. He has many girl friends and there is just one specific girl that I am worried about. From the past, she has taken my sloppy ... (150 words)

Ex boyfriend advice needed!!!

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Well, a couple months ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months and a couple days after i lost my virginity to my ex, I found out that he had pregnant his ex girlfriend of 1 year. How did i found this out you might ask.. ? Through facebook! I was so upset and... (221 words)

I'm infatuated with my Forgein language substitute.

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm infatuated with my Forgein language substitute. I'm a high school freshman, he's in his early thirties. He has shown no "special interest" in any of the girls in the class, including me. I just fell for him, because he seems like the guy I want to spend time with. My ... (80 words)

He says he will call me right back and does not...smh...why do men do that?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does he sometimes say "stay by the phone, imma call you right back," and does not??? I admit it is annoying. What should I do in that situation?... (30 words)

My breasts are really hurting!

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid my boobs have been killing me for a good while now and im really worried incase there is something wrong with them ive asked my friends does this happen to any of them and they said no so im kinda scared. . . i dont no what to do in this situation? ... (79 words)

Do I lose my virginity having anal sex?

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30 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i want to try anal. Is there anything i should be worried about? Well it hurt me? Will i lose my virginity??... (27 words)

My boyfriend of 2 years has never gotten me to orgasm.

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30 October 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I have been with my guy for 2 years and he has never gotten me to orgasm...that i know of. Is there something wrong with me? Is he doing something wrong? I feel like i'm starting to hurt his ego. Help please...... (46 words)

Long distance, things to talk about

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm 25 and during the summer I started dating an 18 year old girl. I know it sounds like a big difference but I felt that we really connected so we thought it was fine. The major problem is that she lives in LA and just started college, and I live in Canada, and am d... (174 words)

I wonder what it's like to be happy and content with your life, because I haven't had that feeling in ages.

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I wonder what it's like to be happy and content with your life, because I haven't had that feeling in ages. I wonder what it's like to have someone who cares about you and loves you. Someone to hold you, wrap their hands around you when you're down. Some one that makes you ... (399 words)

We're twins but the guys think my shorter sister is more attractive

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 5'8" and my twin sister is two inches shorter than I am. It seems like all the guys think that she is more attractive. Is it because she is shorter than me?... (34 words)

Fingering and cherry popping?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible for a guy to 'pop your cherry' by fingering?... (12 words)

Wife had emotional affair with coworker... how to win her back?

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for seven years. Through a lot of those years i was an alchoholic and addicted to pain pills and she was a "good girl" so to speak. She has always been there for me through all my screw ups... (trust me... i have had some doosies!) She has three boys ... (858 words)

Help I fell for my college teacher!

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am so confised and need some advice. I fell for my college teacher and its not just a crush. I am 18 and he is 20 and we always have a ton to talk about and joke around and play pranks on eachother and are fairly good friends. My college teacher graduated from my ... (98 words)

I need some input on my thinking and maybe a little advice on how I should keep my mind sane!

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About 3 months ago, I recently got together with a friend of mine whom I've known for 2 years in university. We were really good friends and I had no motives back then but but something changed and we ended up getting emotionally and physically close. The problem is that ... (480 words)

What do I do if I think I can't kiss?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - What do I do if I think icant kiss like will a boy even care if I can or not if they like me to much ?... (27 words)

She turns me off and on like a switch

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm slightly confused at the moment, i've known this women for 2 years now,the first time we met we hit it of well, not to sound corny but we sensed something in eachothers eyes, she flirted with me by always looking deeply into my eyes, always watching me when drinking water ... (159 words)

Why do I always remember every single thing about her?

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - whats it mean when I remember everything she has ever said done or worn when I talk to her. 215 days ago today is the day I met this girl and for 215 days she has been driving me crazy in im not so sure a good way. I like her so what she knows it and doesn't seem to be ... (289 words)

I am in love with a guy that has been giving me mixed signals.

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay. I am in love with a guy that has been giving me mixed signals. Last week, my friend texted him and he ended up asking for my number. My friend told me and then he texted me. We just had a friendly conversation. Then the next day, there was a dance and he asked me to slow ... (226 words)

Why can't she look me in the eyes?

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So theres this girl who before used to look me in the eye for a long period of time, like we were the only ones in the room and seemed so into me, but now she cant seem to look at me in the eye and never for a more than a second, however she seems happy to see me as she's al... (79 words)

How can I ask her to come to this party with me?

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I got this big party Im going to tomorrow and it will be college kids and high school kids. I was invited by this girl and she said I could bring people. Im bringing my bro and I really want to at least include this other girl I know and her friends if they are down. at t... (233 words)

Condom came off inside me, am I still at risk for an STD?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - am i at risk for a std if the condom came off inside of me? but we didnt notice but he found the condom inside me within 3minutes , but we continued sex with a new condom. am i still at risk for std?... (44 words)

Ditched... days before Halloween

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so Halloween is soon. My two friends and I were going to dress up together. They were making their costumes and I was buying mine. They all went together. I didn't really wan't to be the costume they told me, but i was like "okay well i'll do it cuz we can all dress up ... (258 words)

Why does she have this control over me?

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well I guess I would like to start off and say I love this girl who probably won't ever love me back. she knows I like her and thats fine I guess and she knows my mistakes just like I know some of hers. Right now I know a secret that she really doesn't want me to tell people ... (505 words)

I don't like what I see in the mirror

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I need some advice I dont feel countable with my body i just dont like wat i c in the miroor especially my face i been breaking out so bad i have the worst self esteem wat can i do ? ... (43 words)

Break up or hate music?

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - pretty simple question to ask. this girl I thought I liked isn't what I thought and she has helped me realize this with some of her actions lately. Anyway my question is what is the best break up music or hate music. Something that will really get me thinking. P... (81 words)

Crushing on the guy I work with, should I approach him?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help, should I approach him. I have a huge crush on this guy I work with we are both in our early 20’s we work at a huge firm so I don’t even know his name; all I know is he stares at me all the time. I have caught his girl and guy buds staring at me during lunch. I think I... (154 words)

Does chlorine kill sperm?

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30 October 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I've got a couple of weird questions so if you can please bear with me. Ok now I went on a date this summer with my girlfriend and we were making out in a pool, wearing nothing but swimsuits and pressed up against each other, and we started French kissing and I could feel mys... (161 words)

I wouldn't know who to chose if I had to?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a boyfriend that ive been dating for 2 years and 2 months now and im living with him, and a roommate. (He has brown hair and brown eyes) We have been living together for about 4 months now. I think the reason was because my mom can trust me with him and that i dont ... (357 words)

I think I'm ugly

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well,I think Im ugly,,,,,,I have a flat but,bushy eyebrows but that all wrong.But guys where I live hate flat butts.:( Then the girls I hang with are all really pretty,and have all been in a relationship,had a kiss or whatever,but me?Nope.The guy I like is a total nerd(like ... (62 words)

What's wrong with me? I'm scared of everything

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I am 13 yrs. old. I am in the 8th grade. I dont have many friends. I dont really like people, and people dont really like me, but I want friends. I hope it will get better in high school, but I dont think so, and I dont know why I think it will get better there. ... (577 words)

Should I wait for him to choose between her and I?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I wait for him to choose? I was dating a guy for a while, we were first very good friends. Things were okay but then he felt I was nagging and complaining all the time, also, not supportive of his career. Because of those reasons he chose to be with someone else. H... (448 words)

Should I confide in my b/f about my disabled sister or will he run?

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30 October 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'd love some advice about whether I should talk to my new bf about a worry I have about my family. We've been together 2 months, and I feel so happy with him. He says he feels the same around me, and we've just been spending plenty of time hanging out, doing different ... (617 words)