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New to sex, what are good positions?

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Question - (4 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello,

My girlfriend and I have decided to have sex. I know she wants me to initiate it, but I am a virgin and don't know what positions will give her the most pleasure. She has had sex once before, and I want her to enjoy it more this time. Any recommendations on positions?

Thanks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010):

A lot of women like doggy, (from behind), be she'll need to be aroused and you'll need to be patient, it can be a soul destroying delaying trying to find your way it.

If you are virgin, you'll probably orgasm very quickly the first time - although a condom will help with that.

On that note, buy some condoms, READ THE INSTRUCTIONS and practise putting them on by yourself - that way, when the time comes, you won't be fumbling around.

After foreplay (kissing, touching etc) just start of with missionary - you on top, after you've had sex that way a few times, you can try her on top and then doggy.

Consider going down on her - there is a book called She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, it'll teach you everything you need to know.

Talk to her, pay attention to what she is liking/disliking.

Good luck, use protection, treat each other with respect

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (4 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntWell everybody is different and everybody likes different things so just take it slowely and see how it goes the only way for you to know what she likes is to try lots of different positions and ask her which one she prefers then you will know in future. Goodluck.

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