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*NothingLasts4ever-
writes:My and my boyfriend have planned to have a sexy night soon. One thing that I would really like to do is a strip tease for him as I've never done one properly before for him. I was just wondering what actually makes a good strip tease? Do I start with my top and work down or the opposite way? And what do guys actually like girls to do when doing a strip tease?Any advice would be appreciated :)xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, squeezeybear +, writes (13 January 2010):
Make him sit up on a chair and keep eye contact at all times. You don't want to do it with him lying down or with a distracting film on; everything has to be about you. It will also help if this is a spontaneous thing, catch him by surprise for that ultimate smoking hot effect ;) Walk away when you get to your underwear, just leave the room still holding his eyes knowing that when you get into that other room his jaw will be on the floor ;)
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reader, Miamine +, writes (13 January 2010):
 Damn... AskOldersis... now that is a real turn on... (run's off to find tribal mask and rainstick) boom, boom!!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 January 2010):
 A snare drum with cymbals is a nice touch, of course that would entail having a drummer which could be rather compromising...never mind.
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (13 January 2010):
 The key word is "tease". Practice in front of a mirror. Your panties should match your bra. There is more but I'm uncomfortable enough giving this much advice to a teen.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 January 2010):
Start with out layers (shirts, trousers or skirt), then everything underneath leaving your underwear to last. Do it slowly, and sit him in a chair so you can tease him
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reader, Miamine +, writes (13 January 2010):
Great question...mmmmm... find a nice sexy song, and practise hard turning the words and music into dance moves before you actually perform for him... then you make sure to take off your clothes slowly. Always make sure that you are touching a piece of clothes and your hands are never empty unless you are dancing for him.. it's best not to take off everything, imagination always works best here. It can be as sexy taking off a shoe or a glove, as taking off your knickers and bra. Tease, and turn your back, and hide, whilst you are taking things off.. this will drive his imagination wild.. Use the floor, use the furniture, you should be trying to be a snake woman who is shedding her skin. Suggestion.. I always strip to Joe Crocker's "You can leave your hat on"... wonderfull music, that tells you exactly what to take off when, no thinking needed, and it's pretty sexy and funky and gives you a big finale, your hat, which you can keep on or toss at him... check out the film, "The Full Monty" they use that song to dance, or "striptease" with Demi Moore, for further hints.... Joe Crocker's tune can be found on Youtube. Use props like a chair, to sit down on, a scarf to play with, and wear very high shoes, and a scarf which you can tease him with, by using it on your body, between your legs, and occasionally use it to lash out at him, so you keep his interest and include him in your dance.Don't let him video you, it's pretty dangerous, and a strip tease is always best if it's done in real time, and committed to memory... Hope this helps..... good luck.
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