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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:am i too sensitive with my gf? she thinks i can be at times, she thinks of me as a little boy i guess at times cuz i get sad when she leaves cuz i know we wont see each other for a while, or i cryed a few times when i explained to her how much i love her and how i always wanna be with her. she dosent like to say i love u alot and i do, i do feel insecure at times, and i like to hear that she loves me, i think if she dont talk to me for much shes loseing intrest in me, for example i work as a sales man at a gym, i am training for a bodybuilding contest (im a competitive bodybuilder) and i train in mixed martial arts, and i still have time to talk to her, but lately shes been only talking like an hour a day even though shes not doing much, we useally talk for hours... is it me ? if it is how can i fix it?, i love this girl to death! were both 18she also told me she dont like to say i love u all the time cuz she feels it takes away the meaning from it??, she used to be super attached to me, idk if shes just getting used to me or loseing interst, we have been together 5 months now
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reader, SweetCupid  +, writes (13 January 2010):
 Try to be more macho! I am a girl, and you do sound a bit wet. No offence meant! Stop telling her you love her quite as much, even if inside you feel it. Save it up and then ocassionally give her a special evening where you make her dinner and really spoil her, and tell her how much you love her! That way hearing I LOVE YOU will feel more special. And DO NOT cry in front of her. Try to hold it in until she has gone, crying is a major turn off! Good Luck.x
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