A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with this gentlemen for 3 years. It has been an on again off again relationship. He says he loves me but he never calls, he never says thank you, he never goes out of his way to do anything for me. When I do help him whenever he asks. Ex Helped him move into his house, yard work, woodpile, etc. I don't ask for much cause im really easy going but a simple kiss hello and goodbye are nice. Also please and thank you go along way. But I don't even get this out of him. I know I deserve better but for some reason I don't want to let him go. I do keep myself busy and fucused on other things but it doesn't seem to help. I just don't know what to do? So any advice is greatly appricated. Thanks for your time. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for you reponse. It has made it easier to deal with not wanting to see him. Thanks again.
A
male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 January 2010):
You need to look at your own esteem. Women with low self esteem, low confidence and such are prone to go for worthless men. Yes, you can do better. A lot better. But maybe you're not happy, so you're holding on to the one guy who shows you any affection. But he really doesn't love you. Surely that's enough to let him go. He's just using you, and the last thing you want in ten years time is to look back and realize you've wasted so much time. Let him go, focus on your own life.
...............................
|
