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female
age
30-35,
*ichTea
writes:Hey,I was seeing my boyfriend for 8 months and we had a very strong relationship. But then about 3 months ago we broke up because we was always arguing and annoying eachother. I thought i was over him so started seeing someone else,and then i realised i wasnt over him so a broke up with this other lad because i wanted my ex back. But when i spoke to him about it he told me that when i started seeing this other lad, it really upset him and he pushed all of his feeling for me out so he doesnt have feelings for me anymore. Because of the way he acts a think he still loves me deep down but he doesnt realise it. He said that we wants to be friends because we see eachother at school and we are really close.So i tried my hardest to hide my feelings for him and I thought i was doing really and we were becoming quite good friends and i was starting to think that i was over him and just wanted to be friends.Then he started liking another lass and it hit me hard when they started seeing eachother. But then she still loved her ex so they broke up and she started seeing her ex. But he still likes her and she still kinda has feelings for him.She trys to be around him at school and she is always hugging him. She knows that how i feel about him and rubs it in my face when she hugs him.When im around him i get butterflies in my tummy but i know that we can only be friends and im ok with that. But when i see her with him i get really jealous and upset. I hate her because she is the only person i know who can make me feel so bad. What do I do???x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 January 2010):
This is something you have to get over. You broke up with your boyfriend for your ex, who just doesn't fancy you at all. He really doesn't, because if he did he and you wouldn't have broken up. You're much better off leaving all your ex boyfriends in the past and working to get over this guy. He is your past. Work on your future.
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