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41-50,
*dadrew
writes:im texting and emailing a friend and she isnt happy in her marriage, and oh i would love to be more than the wonderful support to her that i am! im a single, no children yet, 30year old male and she is a 28year old female of a 8year old boy. any advise would be greatly appriciated!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): You're a cad. Your friend's marriage is unstable and you want to move right in and take advantage of the situation. Some friend you are. As the other responder said, stop the emotional affair and leave them alone to sort out THEIR problem. Bud out now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): best way to help your married female friend........... stop your emotional affair, texting, emailing, her big shoulder to cry on. you are doing more damage than good. you are the other man right now therefore her marriage issues are being compounded. leave her alone. you do not want to be just her friend, you want her. have the balls to admit it. so please stop your emotional affair . go find another single/unattached woman. there are plenty around.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (13 January 2010):
 Hun, if you really want to help your female friend, recommend that she and her hubby go for marriage counselling!!
You are in effect, the 3rd person the marriage, and whether you are having an affair with her or not, it will put undue pressure on the relationship she is having with her hubby. Surely, if she has things to say she should be talking to her hubby and sorting them out with him???
And, sorry to say, but she is cheating on her hubby with you - emotional affair!!
Honeygirl
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 January 2010):
Tell her to focus on her marriage, that's my advice. If she has an affair with you, then leaves, you'll have a very unhappy 8 year old boy in your life who will hate you and her ex husband who will do his best to make it as difficult as possible. If she has an affair with you and doesn't leave, you'll be wasting your time. She needs to sort her marriage out first. If she leaves her husband in the future, then there's no problem. But if you want to be more, she has to leave first. Too much can go wrong.
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