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writes:ok so heres the deal. Ive been for my boyfriend for four years, but lately things have not been the same and i have been unhappy for a quite a while. On the other hand, about a year ago this cute guy came into my work and has been coming in ever since. I thought he was so cute and have been talking about him to my friends since the day i saw him. Nothing ever happened,he would just come in , make some small talk, and leave.. until last week. he left me his number, and i texted him. We started texting alot and even hung out a few times and kissed and cuddled. i really like him even tho i just met him and he is the sweetest guy and makes me smile. So of course i feel really bad for cheating on my boyfriend so i figured id try to break up with him so he wouldnt be so hurt if he found out i was seeing someone else. Last night i told my boyfriend it wasnt working and he started crying and asking why i was doing this to him. i feel bad but i really dont want to be with him anymore i feel so stuck. how do you break up with someone when they wont let you? i am just going to keep cheating on him because i really like this new guy and my bf wont let me go. what do i do? help :(
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reader, nelle2472002 +, writes (14 January 2010):
 wowww! this is tough, i can understand where you are coming from. i had a similiar situation. i know it hurts and you dont want to hurt him, but you gotta get out if your not happy anymore. if you dont think you'll ever be happy with him anymore, you have to let him go reguardless. if not, he's going to be even more hurt when he finds out your cheating on him. just tell him your not happy anymore and you need to make sure there is where you wanna be. however you decide to tell him, i really think you should if you don't think its going to work anymore in your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2010): You're taking the easy way out. Your BF isn't begging you to stay with him and the other guy, he's begging you to stay with him alone. You're just lying for selfish purposes if you don't own up to the truth.
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