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writes:hihow do i get over my first love even though it was unreturned in the first place because i feel like a shell of a person with no soul, please tell me how to stop this felling please, i cant take it any more i feel as if i'm dyeing a slow painfull death please help ! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008): im going through the same thing i really understand its only been a week since we broke up and weve dated for 6months so this is what you do kepp your mind on your studies surround your self with family and friend go workout it really helps.CRY that helps to greive because its ok cause you really cared about the person. icried like crazy but the person lost you you didnt lose them and just becuse there not with you anymore doesnt mean you have to lose your self in the process i hope that helps ~
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): Yes, this hurts now. But you are young, and you will know when you find "the one". This pain you have will go away. Be patient. Learn from this. Learn how treat someone, and how you want to be treated. Try not to look back, keep looking forward. Good luck.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (23 June 2007):
 Just believe in yourself. Tell yourself you are meant for better things. If she didn't want to know you then that's HER loss!!! Always think positive thoughts rather than negative ones. SHE is the one that lost out here not you! Keep yourself busy with a new hobby or new interest. Be proud of who you are! She just wasn't right for you and in a few weeks time you'll look back on this and KNOW that to be the case. Never let a woman pull you down like this. Be strong okay? There are lots of other lovely girls out there that would love to meet you. You'll see I'm right!
Eve
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reader, jtaunton5410  +, writes (23 June 2007):
 Alright, first start out by taking a deep breath. I know this is hard. I had a boyfriend in high school and we were together for 4 years. He then dumps me for someone else. I know how you are feeling right now hun. You just want to stay in bed, not talk to anyone and you always feel like crying. Why dont you try and go out with some friends. I know that is probably what people will say to you but it could work. After all that is what I ended up doing. and it worked after a while. This is going to take some time getting over. But the longer it is that you dont see this girl and do stuff to distract your mind from thinking about her, soon you will be able to think of her and not feel any more pain. Dont worry sweetie, things will get better just give it some time. After all things happen for a reason. You two probably broke up because your true love is still out there looking for you. i wish you the best of luck and if you need someone to talk to then you can keep corresponding with me. xoxo
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