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writes:My bf wants me to give him a blow job, and I'm quite happy to, to say the truth I'm quite excited for the occasion. Just a quick question however,I've promised him that I will not spit and I intend to keep that promise, it is safe to swallow isn't it?Is there anything that could go wrong?I've never given one of these before.
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reader, Variety +, writes (24 June 2007):
I would not promise him anything this first time. The first time I gave my boyfriend a blow jow he was so turned on he came loads (and really fast) and I was surprised by the taste and spat it out (on him. not the most sexual thing I have ever done). However, he didn't care because he enjoyed the bj so much. Now I sometimes swallow but I don't really like it and he understands this. You do not know quite what it will feel like when he comes, and if you do spit you could stres out about it and ruin the post-bj sensation of utter contentment for him so I would explain that you will try not to but not promise anything. xxx
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reader, Danielepew + ♥, writes (24 June 2007):
Oral sex can give you a disease. Check this out: http://aids.about.com/cs/safesex/a/oralsex.htmAre you sure he's healthy?If he is healthy indeed, then there's no health problems to worry about.Would he agree to oral sex with a condom?
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reader, bitterblue + ♥, writes (23 June 2007):
You shouldn't have promised, and he shouldn't have made you promise, quite simple! It's a new experience, it requires practice and it can't be planned as you have. You don't know how your organism will react to the taste, even in conditions of total hygiene. Don't forget to keep a towel near you, there's absolutely no reason for him to feel offended if you spit, so long as you don't hurry to the bathroom to wash your teeth!
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reader, Mrinlove +, writes (23 June 2007):
Yeah its safe. I'm not only speaking as a man, i'm also a med student. My advise is do it with confidence, every now & then make eye contact and communicate. He'll lose his mind.
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