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We love each other but still aren't together; I'm confused

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Question - (23 June 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 June 2007)
A female Macedonia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I loved one boy and he said me that he doesn’t love me. Now after 9 months we are best friends. I find out that I still love him. I didn’t tell him. But 1 week ago he told me that he loves me on a very romantic place and in a very romantic way. We were holding each others hands in a river and he said me that he wants us still to be friends after that he told me that he loves me. I was very upset and I started shout him how he could lie me on that way. He told me that he is only joking. When we were coming back he asked me what I would think of him if he tells me that all of it is true. Few days ago he told me that I am the one person that he loved sincerely and i am very confused. Today he told me that that thing he told me on the river is true. I asked him again and he told me he loves me. The problem is that his friend loves me and 1 month ago I was his friends girlfriend but I didn’t love him at all. And my friend loves him and he still is her boyfriend but he loves me and doesn’t love her. He is going to break up with her because he loves me. What should I do I want to be with him but no one agrees with that. I love him and he loves me. I want to be with him but how should I tell him?

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntYou need to get this guy to tell you honestly whether he likes you or not. If he continues to play around with your feelings hunni tell him to leave you alone until he makes his mind up. He can't keep telling he loves you, then saying he doesn't mean it..... it's not fair. Maybe he's saying he doesn't mean them because he doesn't know how you feel. Explain that you like him but he has to commit his feelings not play you around!

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