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writes:Well... I'm new to this, I'm an average girl really and not really the type of girl to be constantly bombarded by boys like my incredibly beautiful sister. Well anyway... for once in my life I have got people intrested in me however I'm starting to think I'm leading them on. The one lad has been a friend for ages and we have always had chemistry and he just split from his giflfriend. In all he's a great bloke and would make me happy but there's another lad who I simply cannot get out of my head. He's the type of lad who is never truly yours but still knows all the right words to say and kisses you just right. I suppose I'm what you would call 'loved up' and he has said he would like a relationship. The problem is he is goin to uni in about 10 weeks. Should I enjoy the time I have with him and forget the other lad or shall I spend a much more stable and long lasting relationship with the other?? Please help me I'm new to this :D Reply to this Question
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reader, jomana  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 well...
there's no point of having a relationship with a guy who's leaving but is he coming back ? if he is then wait for him and have a relation with him.
on ther other hand , the other guy who you can't get out of your head,,i want you to ask your self why can't you get him out of your head? from my point of view i think because you can't reach him and he's the smart guy who knows what to say but is he your type ? which one is better the guy you've known for quiet a time or a guy you know nothing about...?
i hope i've been of help
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reader, Jonty +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Hey, im new to this too, but I'll try my best. My advice would be to stick with your friend and do not go for the lad you are 'loved up' with.
Because this lad is going to uni in 10 weeks, if you did get into a relationship with him you will be devastated when he goes, and will be heart broken if he ended up with another girl at uni.
Plus you have known your friend much longer and will have a bigger bond with him and a better relationship base to build on.
Hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): A horrible dilema, The problem I suppose is can you face is can face missing your bf while he is at uni. They alsway say that time apart lets the heart grow fonder! If you have known this bloke and he makes you happy, and you are prepared to work at it, I dont see why the relationship should not work out for you. Good luck :)
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