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writes:I have spent a long time looking for a soul mate and now I have found them and we have been getting along great and are very close friends... but I never had the courage to take it further in case it changed the realtionship. As a result I have always been a good friend and close confidante even with their relationships but now my soul mate is about to get married and it is tearing me apart - I don't know what to do? I can see that they care for each other but there are problems and it feels as though it only works for them because I am in the picture and smooth things over... How do I proceed? I feel as though my world is falling apart!
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I agree with O_Connor. If you truly believe this is your soul mate and you are meant to be then sit down and tell him how you feel. Explain that you needed him to know but you don't want to loose his friendship.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 it is such a hard position to be in for you! do you think that this person could feel the same and could just be settling? if so then i think that you should consider telling him how you feel, i know its a horrible thing to do but if you are meant to be with him then he needs to know this. you need to tell him and give him the chance to make the right decision knowing all the information. he may just need to hear it from you to realise how he really feels
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