A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:What do you do when you thought your relationship was approaching marriage, but then it went through a dark period where he had someone else, but now you're back but he won't have sex? Still says he's confused but says he loves me. We lay next to each other for hours in our underwear but didn't get beyond kissing (where before it was nonestop love making). I still have great hopes for our renewal, but it is hard to go through what I hope is a way of getting back to each other. Any suggestions much appreciated!
View related questions:
kissing, period, underwear Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007): This is the original question writer! Thank you eyeswideopen & YummyMummy.
I think he really does love me in his heart, but maybe I hold back, too, (romantically) because
of the Dark Period. I hope & pray that a BRIGHT period is beginning!
A
female
reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I agree with eyeswideopen- the relationship sounds very shaky. I wouldn't write it working off just yet. You both need to talk about the situation and understand how each other is feeling. Maybe he's scared to make a move or feels things are moving to quickly for him.
xxxxxxxxx
...............................
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 July 2007):
 This relationship sounds pretty shaky to me. This dark period you speak of, were you broken up or did he cheat on you? Now he won't have sex? What does he say for a reason for this? I wouldn't hold onto those great hopes if I were you.
...............................
|
