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36-40,
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writes:hi I was in love with a guy who's 5 years older than I am for 2 years... he's my neighbor and our parents are like best friends... he knows I liked him but he never told me what I meant to him. Anyway, he travelled on business 3 months ago it was like a break for me... it made me go on with my life again and I stopped thinking about him and stuff. He came back 2 weeks ago for some legal papers issues and he's going back. Anyway.. since we're both at home we've been spending a lot more time with each other so I got to know him even better... he's a great guy but I think I'm falling for him again and I don't want this to happen because the relationship between us is impossible... and actually I'm hopeless cuz no one knows that I think I'm falling for him again and in the past none of the advice helped me.. so I really need like a miracle.. lol..just kidding.. but really if anyone has any suggestions PLEASEEEEE let me know...
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reader, penta  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Stay busy. Preferably at something away from the house. Take a class, join a sport, practice in a chorus, take dance lessons. Anything you enjoy. Keep your mind and body busy, and this will give you a chance to get away from thoughts of him. (You might also meet the next guy at one of your activities, and you'll have that in common.)
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (15 July 2007):
 Heya,
That's a toughie. At times we all wish we could switch our feelings off. If he's going away again then I would ride out his stay and then get on with your life again and hope that if he comes back again you will have moved on properly.
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