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writes: Please help me - my boyf has always been honest about the fact he looks at porn at thats cool cause i doto sometimes but its like he is addicted to it i know he looks at ametuer sites whenever possible and thats what gets me its just photos of women and he has thousands of pictures on his comp - i cant help it i have to look sometimes cause i dont understand its not even phtos of sexual acts just photos of women. he says its " research" and has stopped looking quite so much but it tears me up inside its on my mind day in day out i am fit and attractive and yet he never asks me to dress up or play around with photos - which i love doing
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reader, cam  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 this may seem like the obvious thing and u might hav already done it but hav you talked to him about it? i strongly suggest that you talk to him about it.
i understand him feelin uncomfortable with placing you in the position of these other girls. it would seem that you are only worth what these pictures of girls are. he doesnt want these women and he probably doesnt even really like the idea of being with these women. its just a kind of release something that he finds good to look at. i feel you should confront him about it and tell him how its makeing you feel. your worth alot more to him than sum porn so if it really makes you feel that bad tell him.
i hope things work out for you
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 Sometimes I think the appeal of porn is not just in the pictures themelves, but that they are pictures of SOMEONE else. You are his gf, he is with you, and otherwise you are content with hs porn viewing correct? It may be that he respects you more than those nameless women he sees on the websites, and wishes to hold you in higher esteem than them. BUT It sounds to me that his porn habit is bothering you more than you would like to admit. It's time for the two of you to sit down and talk about this rationally.
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