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Should my ex gf tell her new, soon to be roomate that I will be over at their place, staying over?

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Question - (9 January 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2007)
A male United Kingdom, * Waited For The One writes:

my ex girlfriend said to me on new year's new eve she's wanted her own place.

so i offered to move in with her she said it was a good idea she told me it would make sense. to split the rent down the middle with someone she trusts.

the week after she txted me saying it was ok 4 me moveing in with her still. but then something bad happened the place her brother had lined up 4 her had gone. and she told her brother she was gonna move in with me. he went mad saying she was stupid for doing this.

today she told me her best friend sherri from work as just split up with her boyfriend and as asked my ex to move in with her my ex agreed this morning.

now there gonna move into the flat that sherri owned with her ex and there gonna move out to somewhere better together. sherri's ex danny as moved to manchester.

i told my ex y move it's 5-10 mintues to where they both work my ex work's days sherri her mate works nights. i made a joke like " kool that means i can come over whenever i want " she will be closer to me. she said yeah it's closer. and just smiled and started talking about something else.

my ex and sherri r best of mates. they talk 2 each over about everything but something my ex is not telling her best mate is that where both still sleeping with each over. i think it will be a good move for my ex to tell sherri before i start staying over throw the week because what if 1 night she see's us together and put's 1+1 together. thats not gonna be a good move on my ex's part towards her mate.

what do u think do u think i sould make my ex tell her mate?

my ex told me she wanted to get out of her brothers because they use her like a door mat. when ever they wanna go out they say your baby-sitting and just walk out so my ex doesn't have a choice.

i asked my ex when she moveing out she said " dunno " my ex said she want's to live with sherri but doesn't wanna get there own place 2gether because she think's sherri + danny will get back 2gether they always do this split for like a month get back 2gether and they do it all the time.

in my eyes i was mad because my ex doesn't wanna live with me but i thought about it and i'm gonna use this 2 my advantage.

advantage

1 - she will live closer to me not an hr away but 20 mintues away

2 - she will be home alone at night so more chance for me to go and visit her.

3 - no 1 2 hear us haveing sex so i don't have 2 be quiet anymore (i live with my mom and family)

what do u think?

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A male reader, Big boy +, writes (12 January 2007):

Big boy agony aunthmmm sounds sticky... lets see.. i tell you one thing you would get busted big time, may be get away with it for sometime but you would get busted... advantages sounds nice enough to go for it... Go for it. yeeep let them be together and you have your space.

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