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writes: should i let go of him i have met a man i am happy with hes divorced hes got a ten yr old boy he always used to see till the exwife found out about me yhen she stoped him seeing his son he loves his son alot but we have a flat and he lives there ilive at my married home with kids hubby but we live like brother and sister no sex this man as been to my house with my kids hubby i have never left him out but is exwife boss es him hes a soft person his family say stop being friends with the ex and be with me he wants is ex in our flat and to give her the land line number but she changed hers so we dont have it when he s been with her hes a different person i dont no weather to cut my losses and stay with my family or wait see what happens he will not have nothing bad said about the ex i am going out my mind
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (16 January 2007):
 Well you tried and that must have taken alot! I'm proud of you! But here is the bad news!
My advice to you is leave him, don't let him destroy your life because he can't work his problems out with his ex! He is a grown man! You not his mother!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i have not bad mouthed her
she has never wanted and still dont want me around
been for a coffee and she still not happy she even brought her mother along
he confuses me says he only wants his son overnight 1 day a month
and couple hours aweek
i can not work him out now
and i not sure if i do love my husband or not i have a lot of feeling for him but i dont think its love
so where do i go from here help please
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reader, Tinkz +, writes (9 January 2007):
Its not my place to talk because i havn't been married and i don't have kids, but i have come from a broken home, and man i wish my mother had put her foot down back then!
It's not an easy choice to make, but you need to sit your man down and tell him what it is that you feel for him and how you feel about the situation, but what ever you do don't bad mouth his ex, it may only make it worse!
And maybe in order to make the siuation easier try and make friends with the ex! Go for coffee get to know each other!
and if that doesn't work then as hard as it is you need to cut your losses!
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