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writes: I sent a text message to a girl and my partner found it on my phone. It read "hello sexy,when r u back in town ?". What do I do ?
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reader, Green_Eyez +, writes (17 October 2005):
Not a great deal you can do except start crawling big-time in order to save your relationship. Face it - you've been caught and it serves you right. Start apologising now if you don't want to lose your girlfriend. Some flowers and an expensive meal should start you off nicely along with some genuine words. In the meantime, stop texting other girls and be prepared to be accountable for your movements etc whilst your girlfriend learns to re-trust you.
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reader, pops +, writes (16 October 2005):
Why are you having conversations with another woman like that? Talk to your gf about your relationship, and what this other woman offers you that you don't get from her. Then apologize to her, and stop whatever relationship you have, or were starting to have with the other woman. Love takes work, by both people. Put more effort into the relationship you have with your current girl, and less in chasing another, unless you want to live alone most of your life.
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reader, bee +, writes (16 October 2005):
well what the hell were you doing sending that text?
If you want to flirt with and date other girls, you shouldn't let someone else think you're committed to them.
You say your partner found the text and you're worried about what to do...Is this because you're afraid of confrontation with your partner? if so, in my opinion you need to sit down and talk about why you've been doing this.
If you really think you'll continue to flirt with other people, you need to break it off with your partner and give them the chance to find someone who really cares for them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2005): Sending messages on that type of nature from a womans point of view is classed as cheating .. what advice do you expect to get here youve been found out accept that and try and work through it with your girlfriend and next time dont even consider sending messages of that type of nature to anyone but your girlfriend.
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