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writes: i am 16 years of age and im trying the best i can to fix my relationship. my partner is 28 years older then me and i love him too bits my friends and family have funally approved of him and we have been going out for 5 months. but we just cant seem to stop arguing and fighting i am going away for a month and i will miss him and i know he will miss me but he makes comments like do you feel insecure about our relationship and i do abit only because i have had so many and i have been cheated on in them i think im just scared about him doing it but i just dont know how to improve our relationship our sex life is fine but i never have an orgasm with him unless im in control it is just wham bam thank you maam well thats how it feels please someone help me im at a dead end please!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2005): I'm sorry to say but if he's no pleasing you physically, nor emotionally then you must leave him alone. You're family probably only approved so that you can make your own mistakes or they probably see how happy he makes you, so they have no choice but to be supportive in order not to lose you, but if you are not truely happy then you are just wasting your time with one man when you can be with someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, and there will be no insecurities.
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reader, Taija +, writes (9 December 2005):
 I know exactly how you feel sweetheart. I was in that situation a couple of years ago but the age diff wasnt as big. Get over yourself anonymous who said that this is fake. It does happen. If you feel unhappy talk to him. Do something special. Tell him what you are going through. You never know you could come to a compromise where both of you could be having the same problems. iIhope this helps, sweetheart. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2005): This is a fake question.It has like three of the traditional hot buttons in it
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2005): fairyangel legal age is 16... so she should begin 2 hav a sex life - age gap is too big babe though
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (4 December 2005):
 Sweet Honey Child, what are you thinking????At 16yrs old, you should not even be having a SEX LIFE let alone with a man 28yrs older than you, also, you say you have had lots of relationships before where you got hurt.. What is going on with you? This also happens to be breaking the law, I might add, this man has no right to be having sex with you.You are insecure in this relationship yes, because you are just too young to handle the situation. This man is taking advantage of you and your tender age. Do your parents really know what you are up to?? and what the hell are THEY THINKING, IF THEY DO??? Dont be silly now, you have your whole life ahead of you, dont waste it this way. You should be out there with your friends having good clean fun, not entwined in some hot and heavy relationship with an OLD MAN. Wakey Wakey already, sunshine, do the right thing, and be happy for a change.
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