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writes: I was good friends with this guy for 5 years. We did not talk for a while becasue he went to prison I went and picked him up from prison in december of 2004 he came and lived with me at my house He had nothing I helped him get everything he needed we winded up getting involved with each other and by febuary I was pregnant with his child. At first he did not want me to keep the baby which caused us to fight alot then in march he went back to prison because he ran from parole I mved to my moms and stood by him the whole time he was locked up which was most of my pregnancy In august 2005 i went to pick him up our daughter was due in oct. I had alot of complications in my pregnancy and was recentful that he was not there we he ccame home he ran from parole again and I choose to stick by him becasue i loved him and wanted our daughter to have her daddy.he went to denver to see his mom and an old friend that is 43 and was his therapist when he was 14 he is now 27 when he came back he was acting weired and was talking to her 3 times a day if he wasnt calling her she was calling him i did not like this and tryed to talk to him about it but he kept saying she was just a friend and that she was married. Well he decided to go to denver and live with her and her family for a while to get things together for me and the baby . a wwek latter he told me that he was not in love with me any more and that it was over a week after that i found out she kicked her husband out. i still love him and becasue we have a daughter we talk all the time. Some times he is very distant and other times he tells me he loves me and that he is always missing me. I dont belive that he ever fell out of love for me but that he is confused and scared. i guess I just need some advice or some ones opinion on this matter Reply to this Question
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (4 December 2005):
 Listen cutiepie, this guy is bad news, girl, dont you see how terribly unstable he is? now what kind of example will he be to your daughter, as a daddy? She will grow up one day, and realise what a loser this guy is. You wont be able to hide this from her when she is older... daddy always in and out of jail? Oh come on, girl, your daughter deserves better than that, dont you think? And it really is your daughter that you have to be concerned for right now, you need to give her a solid foundation on which to start her life, now, while she is still small.Her daddy can only be a bad influence on you and her,he has already run off and moved in with another woman... see it like it is, and stop looking at the situation through rose tinted glasses... he doesnt know HOW to love, get out of this mess while you still can, before your child gets hurt. How will it feel to have to take her to the jail to visit daddy, when she is older, and what kind of life is that for either of you? The child has not made him stop and think about mending his ways and becoming responsible, so he will always be that way, and the two of you are going to pay for it, in heartache and tears if you dont leave him alone now.Take care of you and your precious little one, be happy and be positive.
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