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writes: My boyfriend just joined the Army and he says he wants to still be with me, but ths past weekend and week he has not really talked to me or hung out with me. I have talked to him and he says he loves me and everyone needs time with him cause he leaves in 1 month.I have been with him for a year. Should I stay with him or should I leave him? Reply to this Question
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (4 December 2005):
 stay with him for now, just be aware that he will come back a different man this may or may not be a good thing, my bf is in the army and has gone away for long periods of time, stick by him, you never know the relationship maybe become stronger from this experience good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2005): Sweetie let him spread himself around and give everybody a chance to spend time with him before he leaves, this would be a loving thing to do, but tell him it is not acceptable to just cut you off like that, but to include you in his visits to whoever he wants to be spending time with as well.Suggest that you arrange a farewell get together for all friends and family before he leaves, that should cover the situation nicely. You guys still have a month together before he leaves, so just enjoy that time together and see how you feel about the relationship once he has left, is he worth waiting for? Time will tell. Good Luck and stay strong.
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reader, Taija +, writes (4 December 2005):
 do what feels right my dear if you feel that you can be with him no matter where he is and if your love is strong enough then stay but if in your heart you feel that it is too hard or will be too hard let him know but if you do want to stay with him then just ask him for one night of just you and him doing something special but remember it is what you feel deep in your heart is right trust your gut instinct but trust your heart more. i hope this helps good luck :-D
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