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writes: hey! i'm hoping someone can shed some light on a confusing situation! basically there's this lad that i really really like and i've liked him for ages and we've kissed on loads of occasions when we've seen each other out, the only trouble is that he's always got a girlfriend and since i haven't seen him for ages and assumed he'd moved away or something i've had a boyfriend too. Last weekend i was out with a couple of mates and i saw him out with his mates. He was looking over at me all night and i couldn't help looking over at him as well, he asked me where i was going and later on turned up at this bar where i'd told him i'd be and we ended up kissing for ages. I asked him if things were serious between him and his girlfriend and if they had any plans to get married or have kids and he told me that he had no intention to marry her. Later on my mate told me that they had been having a conversation and that this lad had been interrogating him all about me, asking who i was going out with and whether things were serious etc. etc and even whether there was anything going on between me and my mate. Anyway the next day i bumped into this lads mate and he told me that he's actually engaged to his girlfriend so he lied to me about it. What i'm confused about is why he's so interested in me and asking all these questions about me behind my back and lying to me about his fiance, and if this is the woman he wants to marry he obviously doesn't love her cause if he did he wouldn't be behaving like this! do you think that he may be confused and have some feelings for me?
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (5 December 2005):
 If this is indeed true, and he really IS engaged,I would verify that first, he has no business sitting snogging with you at all. The mere fact that you actually brought up the subject and questioned him on this, and him lying to you about it, shows in no uncertain terms, that he is not to be trusted.You say he's always got a girlfriend...seems he is a right lady's man, this one... Steer clear of this guy, he will only break your heart. can you imagine what his fiance would do if she found out about this? if you let this thing carry on, you would be foolish, and you would best get yourself ready to have your eyes scratched out.As for you knowing there is a girl in his life, engaged or not, and still making out with him, well... bad move, girl, he wont have respect for you after that, anyway. Just save yourself a lot of drama and move on to other pastures. Really. Good Luck.
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