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My man caught me hugging another man. Does anyone think my man will forgive me and come back to me?

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Question - (5 October 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2012)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been in a relationship for 6 years with my man.

The other night we were having a couple drinks and he

went to bed and his friend came over. As i was talking with his friend he got all touchy feely and then got caught hugging up on me by my man. He left and wont text or talk to but he keeps telling my daughter he needs to talk to me.

But no contact with me to say when we are going to talk.

I know I hurt him but I was stupid allowing his friend to get that way with me. I have been missing attention from my man for i dont know how long and i guess it felt good getting attention paid to me. I know it was wrong and I am truly hurt from losing him. I just want some advice if anyone thinks he will forgive me and come back to ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2012):

Text your man and apologise keep it short say we do need to talk and that only when your together will he know how sorry you are..

You need to have boundaries and drink less with other males.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2012):

If this guy was a true friend he would never even concider doing such a terrible thing to his friend your man trusted you both and yes you both hurt him this is a very hurtful time for your man give him time an when he is ready he will talk as for his friend well would you still want to be friends with him i think not

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2012):

A miss is as good as a mile.

And he needs to stop sending you messages through your daughter.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2012):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

His friend was being really friendly and hugging all over me and guess you could say he was seeing it as he was going to try to move further with me if he could.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (5 October 2012):

Honeypie agony auntAll that drama over a hug?

What else is there to this story?

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