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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm off the pill but we are still having trouble in and out of the bedroom. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I have had a lot of troubles in the bedroom with my boyfriend. It has been going on for a few months. When i decided to go off the pill, because it was affecting me negatively emotionally and healthwise.. and it also took away all urges to eve...

I thought he was missing me but now it turns out he's been dating someone new and claims she's 'nice'. I'm terribly hurt!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Hi, please read and offer any advice you can! 6 weeks ago, me and my guy called it a day. He was my flatmate but we were always 'more than friends' so we decided to live separately and give things a go. Things were great to start but things like mov...

We have great conversations on the phone, but he won't talk to me on Facebook.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I'm a teenager btw...Theres this guy i met almost a year ago, he goes to a different school and lives in a different town.So its hard to commit because there is a bit of distance, but not a huge one. I'm just gonna put it out there..i think i love ...

I've lost my libido!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

12 December 2011 (M) - I am Gay Guy, in a Civil partnership. I have appeared to lost my libido, and my partner has turned to using phone lines for his sexual release. I get very frustrated with him, and at a loss as how to handle this....

Pregnant, alone and trying to find my way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Im 18 going on 19, and I was sleeping with my ex fiance, trying to slowly win him back, then I got pregnant. I'm 12 weeks along now, and I moved up to Oregon with my aunt and uncle. He's down in California and is still in shock. He wants to be there ...

Am I just emotional or is this true love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time together. We haven't gone without seeing each other more than a couple of days in the entire 17 months we've known each other. Over the last few months I've felt more and more lonely when we're apart. I get ...

I cant make myself leave him even though I know I should!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I am with my bf for 2 years. I never really introduced me to his friends as gf. For them i was just his friend, he is not cheating on me, so i never really raised any issues on it. He never really talked about our future. Yesterday he...

Am I getting used again and if so how can I stop myself feeling this way about him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I split up with my partner of 18 years this year as we had a shambolic relationship, i was totally neglected and just felt used by him. Since I got a new lease of life, i lost 4 stone in weight and made a lot of new friends. Unfortunately i have ...

Other women don't get on with my fiance, help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

12 December 2011 (M) - Hi i just wonder if theres anyone out their who can give me some advice. I have been with my fiance for coming on 9 years, she is a beautiful, caring although sometimes hotheaded woman lol but all in all she is a good girl with great morals. We have ...

Is my trust issue all in my head? Will he be hurt if I ask him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - So I think this problem is with me and my trust issues, but I'm not sure. We've been together about a year. I know he loves me. After talking with him about a lot of things, more and more he has made his affection for me more obvious--he has ...

Discovered his secret phone and dating site registrations...but he has managed to turn it around on me for violating his privacy!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I discovered that my boyfriend of 4 years has been registered on several dating sites and texting off a secret cell phone. I asked him what he thought he was doing and he went very serious and asked me why I have violated his privacy. He has offered ...

My husband is saying hurtful comments about my weight! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I need help! I have only been married 1yr. Well next month will make it a year. We have been together 3years though. I am in the military and i am currently deployed. I work out a lot to keep stress down, and to give myself something to do. My ...

My bisexual/lesbian friend dislikes gay men!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

12 December 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, My best friend is a female bisexual and she's great, but I have one problem and its the fact that she hates gay men. I'm so fed up with her double standards its drives me up the walls. Sometimes she calls them names like F****t and ...

I'm 15 and my family hasn't talk to me since I told them I'm pregnant. How do I get them back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I'm 15 and having a baby what should i do? i'm keeping the baby but my family hasn't talk to me since I told them. I want my family back, so what should I do? I can't do this on my own, they want nothing to do with me. ...

How can I stay positive, if I feel that my life is ruined by bad fate or bad luck?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - How can you keep positive attitude, if all what happens in your life , makes you miserable? I tried my best in life, but I got really bad cards to play with. So things will not turn around any time soon, also some of the bad things caused perm...

I'm devastated. She hasn't cheated yet, but is our marriage unravelling? She wants to try other men for sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

12 December 2011 (M) - After a night of great sex my wife of 20 years informed me that she had begun thinking more and more of sex with other men. I pressed her a little if she meant like a three-way or more, and she said no, just one person. She didn't have anyb...