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writes:How can you keep positive attitude, if all what happens in your life , makes you miserable? I tried my best in life, but I got really bad cards to play with. So things will not turn around any time soon, also some of the bad things caused permanent damage. Everything is wrong in my life right now. Kids, health , relationship, and work. Several bad luck, of of my control things ruining my life. Yet people are bugging me, that I'm negative. I can't even give all the detailes, of my tragedies, as it's hard for me to write it all down. I'm not yet ready to face them. My question is, how can I stay positive, if I feel that my life is ruined by bad fate or bad luck? Also do you belive in the law of attractcion, that it is my fault that bad things happened, as I wasnt positive enough? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (12 December 2011):
I've found that the more positive I was especially when things felt like they were kind of in my control, the worse I felt when something happened completely out of my control that took it all away.
My mother gave me some good advice when I was at my worst point. She told me that because i kept experiencing major roadblocks (severe debilitating health problems, lost jobs, etc. ) every time I tried to move forward in life the way I thought I should go, it was perhaps time for me to stop and instead of blindly pushing forward wait for the universe to tell me where I need to be.
She was right. Once I stopped and waited, good things began to happen. I have held jobs on and off, I currently provide childcare services to my brother and his wife so they can work and they know their baby is in safe living hands. Because I likely can't have children of my own, this is a blessing. I get to be a second mom to their little one!
Take a step back and see what the universe is trying to tell you. All of your trials, tribulations, difficulties, and life experience has been given to you so you can touch the lives of others. You can share your experiences and make a difference in many lives by sharing your wisdom.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 December 2011):
 If someone is always negative, then yes this is going to have an impact on there life. If you see the world through negative eyes well then negative things are always going to keep happening. Have you visited a doctor to check for depression? As this might be the cause of why you are always feeling like this.
You need to look at the positive side of your life. There must be some things that are good. Have you children? A relationship? A job? Even though things might look bad, these are all good reasons to be positive about life. Some people cannot have children, some people can not find love, and others cannot find work, meaning they are living on the streets because they can not earn money for themselves. The list goes on. I am not saying you have not had a hard life. But you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and have a positive outlook on your future or else you are always going to be miserable.
I think you need to go and talk to a doctor and a therapist about it.
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