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writes: Can someone please tell me if it really is possible to live with someone who doesn't know whether they love you or not?My boyfriend has told me before that he does love me but when we argue he says that he doesn't know and now I'm not sure whether he has lied before about loving me.I love him very much. I do all I can for him. Is it possible to live with someone knowing that they may not love you?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2006): I have the same problem as you do. Only it is me. I am living with my husband of 10 years. We have been together almost 18 years. The thing is, I feel i have fallen out of love with him. I feel I do not love him the way I should.
We are trying to work it out, but my feelings for him is not changing. he knows all of this and we live together.The reason why I havent left yet, is because I dont want to HURT HIM. I want to take it slowly and gradually maybe lead up to leaving. But i will not play it up, in the meantime. I dont know why your boyfriend would do this, but maybe it is similar to me. I wish you the best and may your life work out well!!
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reader, tired +, writes (30 April 2005):
I think that if he truly loves you he wouldn't change his mind all the time. Just because you argue it doesn't mean he should say he doesn't love you. If you really love someone you love them all the time, not just when life is good!!!
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