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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Am I gross? OR was the guy just not nice?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

4 May 2010 (?) - Hi, I recently hooked up with a guy and whilst we were in bed fooling around he took off my pants, then he stopped and was like ew, so I asked what's the problem and he told me "your vagina is gross". I've had my confidence knocked by it my...

Did my boyfriend get my colleugue pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me with one of my close co-workers at work, all three of us work together. And we have hung out together on the regular. But now the girl is pregant she's saying its 50-50. she not sure who the father is? I don't ...

Good sex with unloving husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend of a year. I have never felt like this about anyone else - not even close. However, i have been married for ten years and have two children. My boyfriend is married too. We knew each other for two years before we ...

Is he masturbating over girls we know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - about a month ago I was on my boyfriends computer, and while i was typing in an web address a porn site popped up, as one he was looking at recently. So I looked at his history, i know i probably shouldnt have, but i did. i wanted to see what kind ...

Implant is making sex unenjoyable!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Hi I have had the implanton in my left are for 8 months and I thought it would be a great type of protection except well I've lost all feeling down below and I mean everthing!:( oral feels lik nothing to me and I can't feel him inside me wit condoms ...

Was my dream trying to tell me something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I'm a lesbian teen and last night I had a sex dream about my best friend. In real life my friend knows that I'm gay. So in my dream my friend was seducing me and I was trying to get her to stop because I told her that she was probably...

He's always there for me but I don't love him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now, He is sweet and wonderful and has been there for me through a lot during our relationship.(My brother died in a car accident, my parents divorced a and my grandpa died and he never left ...

How do I satisfy my bi-curiosity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - OK so i have recently decided i am very much bicurious. I really want to try sime stuff with a guy but i have not got any bi or gay friends. i really do not know how to approach anyone at all. I did discuss the situation with one of my female fri...

How do I get her to back off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - i need some help on how to deal with a very annoying problem. i work at a restaurant and there's a girl who comes in very often and hits on me like there's no tomorrow. the problem is she is only 16 turning 17 (she is extremely attractive for her ...

My boyfriend is selfish with sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - I'm a 23-year-old gay guy, and I've been with my partner for over three years now. The one major problem in our relationship is lack of sex. My partner never touches my penis, never gives me a handjob, never gives me a blowjob, and never let's me ...

Didn't want to fall for him, but I have!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Ok so I've been with my husband for 8 years but these past 4 months I have been having an affair. He has a girlfriend, but is nit happy. We agreed at the start that it was just gonna b a bit of fun. When we meet it is generly just a physical thing, ...

Do I make him feel guilty or pretend I'm fine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Ignore the age, I'm actually 17. I need some advice, I have this friend and I love him but somehow he really doesn't seem to know. About a week ago I slept with him and then he said not to say to anyone what happened to avoid scandal. He is qui...

Having a hard time forgiving myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I recently had a foursome with a woman and two men that I am not in a relationship with. However, I am in a relationship with another man whom I love very dearly. I am 20, and have always been happiest in relationships, as I've only been single ...

I want to give him my virginity but there's a problem..he already has a gf!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - im 19 and i found a guy that i want to lose my virginity to. We have been together for a month and i feel 110% ready. The problem is that he has a girlfriend on the side....

Ideas of what to do in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - i have this friend i have know forever we went to school together. We lost touch after high school and have reconected again. She is happily married and I am divorced. She is in an open marriage and I have been with her husband several times. Once ...

Can't enjoy sex until she's tested and I wear a condom.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - I love sex but nothing spoils the mood more for me than when she suggests we do it without a condom. I instantly lose my hard-on and it's not getting back up after a comment like that. I don't want to get an STI. I trust her but how can I trust ...

He had sex with another girl! will he hurt me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Hi, i was with this boy for around a year and a bit, when i discovered that he had had sex with another girl. I was devastated and he was heartbroken that i had found out and that i was hurting inside. he tried everything he could to make things ...

I'm interested in my husbands sexual interests but he hides them from me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I have two kids, so I'm always tired or busy and my husband works 8 hours a day. It seems like we can only have sex when the kids are a sleep. If we don't have sex almost everyday than he'll watch porn when I go to bed or if he gets off work early ...

Wanting to watch the girl I love have sex with another man, since I can't.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - I met this girl online that I really liked and we fell for each other and it is all completely amazing, we are pretty both always searching for a way to talk to each other and I am soon gonna move to where she lives so we can be together. But ...

Why have I lost interest in sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - i really need some advice. i'm 19 and i've been with my boyfriend for two years. i love him so much and he makes me so happy. the thing is, i'm just not sexually interested. we don't have sex a lot of the time, but when he wants to have ...

My girlfriend lost her virginity to another guy while we were on a break!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, Well me and my girlfriend were both virgins, well I still am and we have been going out for 4 years. We were waiting for a right time for us to be together before we actually do this and we both agreed. We both love each other so mu...

Could I be pregnant after a drunken fumble in a toilet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Could I be pregnant or am I being stupid I AM NOT ON THE PILL OF ANY FORM OF CONTRACEPTION I am normally a very sensible person but I was out on friday night and my best friend got me very very drunk, I was dancing with this really nice gu...

Could I have an STD even though we were both virgins?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - OK so me and my boyfriend have had sex- multiple times and of course we've been safe about it but also ive given him oral too and i know for a fact that he was a virgin (like me) before we had sex and we both never participated in 4play before each ...

I am very jealous of other women around my boyfriend but I am curious about having a threesome! Would it be a bad idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - So iv been with my bf for 4 years we have a beautiful son and a really strong connection. were completely in love. Now about ME I am a super jealous babymomma. i have suspicions of somethings i think he might have done while i was pregnant but ...

I want to have sex more often with this girl and I'm confused about what she really wants from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - a friend of mine (whom i dated in high school for a whole month) and i have been seeing each other off and on for a couple months now. we've had sex twice. once when we were drunk, and once after a nice sober night at my house. lately though she's ...

Pregnant and sexually frustrated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I am pregnant and my baby's father dont want to have sex with me. I dont wont to go outside the relationship and have sex with someone else. My hormones are about to explode. He dont understand how I feel and he wont give in to me and have sex. ...

How do I initiate oral sex? I've never tried it before

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much, and we've been dating for quite a few months. He's given me pleasure (not sex, Im a virgin) and while he's had oral sex with another girl before, I've never given it or recieved it before him. I still havent given it, ...

We're both virgins, for multiple reasons

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Ok, so, I'm a virgin and I have been dating this guy for a while. We are both virgins and while sex is not an immediate thing in our relationship, I have wanted it at times (as I am sure he does too), but we have not as of yet for multiple reasons. ...

He's controlling and the sex isn't too great, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I have this boyfriend, and he's the sweetest boy ever. We've been together for 2 years and, hes yet to cheat on me, and is the "ideal boyfriend" However, hes very controling that it makes me not want anything to do with him. Also? The sex isnt that ...

I have herpes -- am I just wasting his time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - hi i have a dilemma. i just met a guy yesterday and i really like him. we hit it off and he asked me to dinner but im afraid of going at all because i have genital herpes, and i feel like i just have no right to even go out with him at all, like im ...

My husband has a very low sex drive. why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Problems in bed. My husband And I have been married for 3 years now. We dated for at least 2 years. during that time we had the best sex ever. He was my first. I love and respect him with all of my heart. We have a 2 year old beautiful daughter...