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Implant is making sex unenjoyable!

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Question - (4 May 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I have had the implanton in my left are for 8 months and I thought it would be a great type of protection except well I've lost all feeling down below and I mean everthing!:( oral feels lik nothing to me and I can't feel him inside me wit condoms , we have tryied without and I can kind of feel something but still I'm worried! I'm 18 and to lose feeling is heart breaking when my boyfriend and I make love.. When I was on the pill or using condoms alone this wasn't a promise I'm wondering does anyone know of ppl this happened to or is it a side effect or anything I can do to regain feeling down there please help!!:-(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010):

Q, perhaps I have not previously had the opportunity to appraise you of the fact, but one spin-off of the 800 years of invasion and brutal occupation is that we (the Irish) all became fluent in proper English, to the point where our novelists, songwriters, playwrights etc have been repeatedly out-performing the English at their own language for about a century now, and there is no pressing need for you to translate your thoughts into the argot of a retarded Kerryman in order to make them more easily understood to the OP.

Is maith liom uisce beatha (I like alcohol)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010):

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Thanks i tnk I'll wait till July thanks x

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A female reader, x-kitycatlok-x United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2010):

x-kitycatlok-x agony auntAre there any emergency doctors in your area? You can normally go and see them if it's a real concern and it's normally quite quick - just go when you have a free moment, maybe? Just a suggestion :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010):

hang on i never said im having sex all the time!! i havent since feb if u must know but its obviously a worry and thats why im asking!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (5 May 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf you are 18-21, tell him that you formally request he not disclose any of the examination information with your parents, at the risk of violating the physician-patient confidential privilege. If he refuses, get a new doctor ASAP. And report him for ethics violations.

Try to move the appointment up if you can. If you're so busy with your exams that you don't have time to see your doctor, then you really woudn't have time for sex either, would you? I mean, if you can make time to have sex, you can make time to see your doctor, right?

And tell him not to blab to your parents. Also tell your parents that from now on, if they want to know your medical details, to ask you, not the doctor, as you've put him on notice. Be nice, smile a lot when you tell them but be firm.

Good luck.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 May 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntYour doctor is violating his oath and your rights, your visits are your business and only your business, sue this quack then get another doctor.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010):

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Now I'm really worried!:-( I can't go to my doctor for two month because of important exams.. My doctor always tells my parents about my visit and why I visit so it's a huge turn off to talk to him privately ..:( thanks tho..

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A female reader, Sakuchanz United States +, writes (5 May 2010):

You definitely need to see a doctor because sex is supposed to be enjoyable.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (4 May 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntComplete lack of feeling doesn't show up as a side effect in the product literature. http://www.spfiles.com/piimplanon.pd.pdf

The best recommendation I have is to talk to your doctor about this. Perhaps there's something else going on unrelated to the implant. A nerve inflammation? A virus? Who knows, you need to be examined by your physician. We'd just be guessing here.

Good luck.

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A female reader, x-kitycatlok-x United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2010):

x-kitycatlok-x agony auntI have had the implant for over a year now and have had nothing like this, and have heard of no side effect at all that is anything like this when the majority of my friends have it also, and have read nothing about it happening online Have you thought about going to a doctors surgery? This is uncommon and I am concerned for you.

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