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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Sex with a big guy - any positions for more body contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I've just started a new relationship and the sex isnt exactly satisfying. I think it might partly be because of his size. He's very tall and though he's not fat he is quite chunky and wide. I like to be physically close to a guy when we are havi...

Where is my G-spot?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I've enjoyd having sex with my boyfriend for quite a while but no matter what, i can not get to orgasm. I looked the g-spot up on the internet but if i stimulate that place all it makes me do is want to go to the loo. Is it suposed to be that ...

How do I make sure I don't hurt him during a bj?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - my boyfriend has asked me to give him a blowjob, i dont think i am ready to yet, but i have been wondering, what would make him enjoy it to the max? And what do i do to make sure i dont hurt him?...

We're like sexual ships that pass in the night....how do we get on the same schedule?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - My husband works late and rarely wants sex. When he does it is usually at 2 or 3am, when I am often too tired. I'm in the mood during the day, but then he's at work! How do I figure this out? I don't have a particularly strong sex drive a...

Drifting away from my wife, having an affair and utterly confused! Please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - I am a married man of 5 years. While my wife is a wonderful mom to our two children our relationship has diminished to the point where I feel were just good friends. She does not feel the same, but unfortunately our lack of time together, intimacy ...

Tricky nipple hair situation, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is dark haired, sometimes she gets dark hairs around her nipple region, how to I go about this because it is sometimes hard to concentrate during foreplay? Thank you...

Dreading the upcoming conversation about anal sex!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hi there, I just read a question where the guy was worried his girlfriend was lying when she said she had never had anal sex before....I'm about to be that girlfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really really love him. We ...

I'm pregnant and my husband hasn't had sex with me for the past 2 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I am 28 weeks pregnant and my husband has not had sex with me for the past two months. Should I be concerned? What is going on? I confronted him about this issue and nothing happened. He does not seem to care....

Does he really have ED or is he seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - Another day, another burning question. So I slept over my boyfriend's place last night and noticed the following: 1) A note I had sent him back in January that he has kept on his fridge is no longer there 2) A picture of us that he had as hi...

Is it safe to make this fantasy come true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hey, is it safe to make the "rape" fantasy come true? Me and my boyfriend want to give it a try its both of are fantasies, but i dont want any thing to go wrong or be awkward after it happens, do you just go back right after into being the lovey ...

I've lost my sexual appetite at 22.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Okay, here's the thing. I never thought that I will reach this stage, It's not my thing to ask advice from the internet but I'm just confused and uncertain. I've been dating this guy since 3rd year highschool. I'm 22 now. I graduated colleg...

I wonder if I should be more open to sex, after my rape experience?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hi I am 18 and was a virgin until I was raped a few months ago by a man that attacked me on the street. I do not count him as a sexual partner obviously, but it has kind of changed my attitude towards sex and my virginity. I am not desperate to los...

I want to be her "friends with benefits" but I'm not as sexually confident as she is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - I have been talking and hanging out with a girl who lives around and hour drive away from me. Having asked her on a date, she made it clear that she was not looking for a boyfriend. However, she said we could be Friends With Benefits... I am 100%...

Boyfriend is shy in bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of almost three years is really shy when it comes to sex. He wont try anything new, he doesn't like me touching him or doing anything to him. We still have sex but its a case of having a quick kiss, clothes off and thats us having sex. ...

Is there any way to regain my youthful sex drive and performance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - I may have messed myself up sexually. Im 39 and during my life i had a few very bad relationships that caused me to push women away for the last 9-10 years. but just because i didnt want to be in a relationship or have relations doesnt mean that i ...

Within the last 2 weeks I have been unable to get turned on, is this because he cheated in the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Im a girl of 18 been with my boyfriend now for just under a year. just recently, before we get ready for sex he is not able to turn me on, and during sexual intercouse i dont seem to be enjoying it. could this be due to the fact he cheated on in the ...

I think I have met the "one" but he is the only person I have ever slept with, and now I am thinking I need to get a few flings out of my system!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hey guys, i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, i honestly beleive he's my soulmate. Totally crazy about eachother, he's the man i want to marry and have children with. Thing is, i've only ever slept with one person, him. And he slept ...

The guy I am dating walked out on me in the middle of having sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hey guys, So heres my situation.Last night i was with a guy i like.It was only our second meeting but things got on and we started making out and before i knew it there was sex.I know i should have waited when i think of it now.Moreover i was so s...

Is the transition from masturbation to penetrative sex difficult?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - Hello All, I am a guy aged 23, single (in fact, never been on a date yet) and a virgin (no surprises). I am not really desperate to lose my virginity and I think I can wait till I find my true love or till I get married. But for the last two...

Is this love or am I just sprung?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Tell me if this is normal. Okay so I lost my virginity to this guy that I really liked, and now I like him even more, but we broke up, and I still like him, Is it normal to feel this way? Or am I just sprung or obsessed?...

Why doesn't my boyfriend turn me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - well my problem is basic ive been with my bf 2years, and i just never want sex with him i don't get turned on or anything why is this? am i bored or what?:(...

Sex issue. Would counselling help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - *OP's suggested title* My wife and I are both 50. We have been married for about 25 years and she has always tried to give me the impression that she only has a passing interest in sex. Even when we were dating, sex was a bit hit and miss. Sex alwa...

Is he too embarrassed to date me after what happened in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - This past weekend (Friday) I hooked up with a guy...sort of. He came back to my place, we spent a lot of time talking, and ended up in bed. He went down on me, and I gave him oral..but he couldn't keep an erection. I thought maybe he wasn't turned ...

Is my bf having an allergic reaction to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I have a sex/medical question - every time my boyfriend and I have sex he gets very sore, swollen and inflamed afterwards. I know he should go to a doctor and I'm sure I'll convince him to eventually, but in the meantime, has anyone had a similar ...