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anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend very much, and we've been dating for quite a few months. He's given me pleasure (not sex, Im a virgin) and while he's had oral sex with another girl before, I've never given it or recieved it before him. I still havent given it, and I am wondering how to go about it, how to initiate it with him. I want to make him feel good, but I dont really know how to go about initiating it. Any tips at all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): Aww it's not that hard most guys would love any kind of attention like that. You can either say something to him, let him know you're interested in giving him the same pleasure he gives you or just do it with your body, run your hands down his torso and start undoing his pants, if he stops you then tell him you are curious and would like to give him a bj and see what he says. If he doesn't resist, once you get his clothes out of the way just start kissing him and move your way down his body until you get where you want to be. But I caution...that you both discuss how far you're willing to go. If you start performing oral sex on each other it could very quickly lead to sex, pregnancy, and STD's. So make sure he knows the limits you are comfortable with. A final note...not all guys are into receiving oral sex, it's rare but there are a few that just don't enjoy it.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Just do it. Some night when the two of you are getting hot and heavy just go for it. Rub it through his pants and then pull it out. Don't let yourself over think it, just do it. Since you're new, ask for directions. This is both a turn on and a great way to make sure you're satisfying him fully.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 I think the main thing is that if you want to do this, you make him wear a condom. You don't want to risk catching anything.
Then just say to him something like "What to you think about oral sex?"
That should get the conversation going. If that doesn't work, nothing will.
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