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writes:Hey guys!question, i'm a 16 year old virgin, really thinking about losing it now, ive waited for a while and i genually want to do it, if i lose it to a guy who's quite experienced in that area, will it feel good?People say all first times are uncomfortablebut yeah, surely that can't be completley true? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): heres the answer: experience has nothing to do with the pain and not every girl experiences the same amount. the first time is most likely going to be uncomfortable. his experience will benefit you more so after the first few times- that is if he actually knows what he's doing- when initial penetration is no longer painful
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): An inexperienced guy who cares about you will be better than an experienced one who doesn't. Just get into a trusting relationship with someone and take it from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): I read this great thing on an agony aunts profile the other day, "if you have to ask, you're too young" if you have to ask a question like this and it's not clear to you that size(bigger = ouch) and skill(better knowledge of female genital zone)are going to be main factors in pain I'd wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): It hurts most people. The reason could be that its a deterrent so that you wait until you find someone you love.
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reader, bad romaance  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 It really is very uncomfortable. It kills ... the pain is indescribable. Well doing it with somebody more experienced just means that he knows what he is doing, maybe. But I will recommend doing it with someone you love and who understands that it will be painful and will take it slow and pay attention to you and notice if you are in pain or not.I wont go on about you shouldnt be having sex at 16 im no better I only lost mine a few weeks ago and im 17 but i did it with my boyfriend and he knew it was my first time and that I was afraid of the pain so we took it slow and steady and now i only get the odd twinge or so :)
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reader, Reaper94 +, writes (9 July 2010):
Cant comment to be brutally honest, being a virgin and a male myself, though from what ive heard its not too bad as long as your not tense, lots of foreplay to get yourself wet and it shouldnt hurt.
And dont just have sex with anyone, find someone you love etc.
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reader, sammyj1984 +, writes (9 July 2010):
it all depends on each individual really i mean most people say there first time was horrible but others say it was fantastic.my best advice is make sure your both relaxed and chilled out use plenty of foreplay as that will get your juices flowing.don't make it a quickie make it meaningful and then you will remember your first for a very long time.hope ive helped a bit.
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