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My boyfriend keeps making excuses not to have sex with me

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Question - (9 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I don't understand why but for a while now my boyfriend doesn't really want to have sex. When I met him we were like friends with benefits and he always wanted sex. But now he's always giving me excuses saying that he's too tired. I feel so bad cuz it's like hes rejecting me.

I think he might be having sex with other girls and that's why he won't have sex with me. But he always says no that he's only with me that he's just tired. but I don't believe him. He says he really likes it with me and that I wear him out and he gets really tired. I'm getting really frustrated because I don't know if theres something wrong with me and that's why he won't do it or if it's him or if he's with someone else and I can never get a straight answer from him. I love him so much and he claims that he does too but the way that he acts and the fact that he never wants to do it makes me wonder. Help!

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (10 July 2010):

xanthic agony auntHe might have another friend with benefits on the side.

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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2010):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntCould be he's got a STD he'd rather not discuss...

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