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Archived questions from: 29 July, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I need some tips on talking dirty!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - As stupid as this sounds, i don't know how to dirty talk. Can anyone give me some things to say because he told me he loves it when i dirty talk but i honestly suck at it :(...

Are there any tips for using vibrators?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I know this sounds a little, um, weird to say, but, I cannot orgasm when I use my vibrator. I start getting pleasure, but then it fades away, and I can barely feel anything. On top of that I find it quite painful when I insert it--I can never find...

Here I am on top of him next thing I know, I get poked.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - So i finally met my Man for first time....wow he's amazing, he brought me into kay jewlers and bought me a gold diamod ring, he did it when i wasnt looking, i love him but he won't tell me how much he spent or how many Ks it is. Anyway, we went out ...

How can I stop my boyfriend from worrying about him not pleasing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I've never had an orgasm, i've been having sex with this one guy for a few weeks and he is really worried that i don't enjoy it, which just makes it harder for me to relax. I don't know how to stop him worrying??? ...

I can't tell my parents I'm pregnant, what am I going to do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years had sex and i think i might be pregnant, and seeing as i come from a Catholic family i cannot tell my parents. What should i do? Love SOS...

Why was he so angry when I kissed him, yet he was happy to have sex with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I met a man recently and he wanted sex but i didnt because I held back. We met up recently and when we went I kissed him on the lips and he wasnt too keen I dont mean a long lingering one, just a quick one-and he doesnt want to see me anymore, not ...

She reacted so adversely when I asked for more intimacy that I felt like a pervert! Help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 475 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - hi everyone, ive posted a few things on here and you all be very helpfull... me and my girlfriend are very intimate at the moment and i came out with totaly the wrong thing the other day when i was intimate with her i asked her if she wanted t...

I have pain when he penetrates very deeply, during intercourse, why does it hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - why does it hurt when he goes really deep, like all the way in? is he hitting my cervix?...

My husband's male friend is at our home, almost every other weekend, our sexual acts have changed, could my husband be cheating on me with his male friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My husband has a best friend that he hangs out with all of the time. He has recently gotten to the point where he goes outside to talk with him. I came home one day on my lunch break and when his friend called he was speaking in codes, and finally ...

We are more like friends than a couple now. Is it time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and in the past 6 months our sex life has gone completly, even kisses and cuddles have gone. I have tried more or less everything. We are more like friends now as we have nothing in common like we use ...

My vibrator is making me feel uncomfortable when I get close to orgasm.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have not been masturbating for very long. (about two weeks and it is with a rabbit style vibrator) I come very close but I find the vibrating is too intense so I have to stop! I have not had an orgasm before. I would like to but when I get very ...

21 and still a virgin. What can I expect for my first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm a 21 year old female. I have recently gotten together with my first boyfriend, who is 23. We spent the night together last saturday but decided to stop and not to have sex just yet. I am a virgin, he is not. But i haven't told hi...

My husband doesn't know I've never had an orgasm because I fake it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - hi, well,eva since i started having sex,which is a long time now,i ve never had an orgasm,i mean never.am married with two kids and my husband doesnt know cos i fake it!!!i dont want to hurt his feelings!! i do have feelings though when i put my pi...

How do you know if you are ready for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - how do you know if your ready for sex???...

What is sexual contact, and is it illegal to have any sexual contact with someone under 16?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - i just wondering if u could help me what is sexual contact??? is it illgal to have any sexual contact with a person who is younger than 16? ...

He always has to take over at some point during manual or oral stimulation and finish off the job himself - is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Is it normal that I can't make my boyfriend cum by hand or oral? I can get him really really aroused but he always ends up finshing off himself by hand or by sex. I am pretty sure I'm doing it right, going fast etc, but I go for so long I just get ...

My sister ruins everything for me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - my sister really winds me up, she ruins everything for me and when i say everything i mean EVERYTHING shes such a tart! shes 13, yes only 13! and shes going out with a 17 year old who shes been with for 3 months and is already having sex with him, ...

My girlfriend is refusing to give me oral unless I shave, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - My gf is refusing to give me a blow job unless i start shaving. what should i do? I'm also woried about accidentally cutting myself. Plz help me out....

Is asking my boyfriend for oral sex unfair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I am a virgin, which my boyfriend knows, but we have had anal. There are a lot of reasons I don't want to have sex with him that I won't include here. But one thing is that he's small in that department (I can't imagine that I would honestly feel ...

I don't make any noises during sex... should I fake it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Note: I am a girl. So, I have recently become "sexually active" as they say. What I've realised is, despite thoroughly enjoying myself, I don't ever make any sex noises. Is this a big deal? Is anyone else quiet during sex/oral/fingeri...

How do I ask her to shave down there without her getting mad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are both 15,we've had oral sex together, and she doesnt shave and i want to ask her without her getting mad so how do i?...

How do I squirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I've tried to squirt a few times now, by myself, I tried using my fingers--which I didn't really feel a terriffic 'G-Spot' (and I am not sure where it is because 1-2 inches into my vagina doesn't feel ULTRA SENSITIVE) And my fingers didn't feel as ...

He was VERY experimental with his last girlfriend... what can I do to really wow him in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I'd really appreciate some sex tips from anyone that can give them. I've recently started dating a guy who I like A LOT. He's attractive, really sweet, and treats me great. I'd really like to see this relationship last a long time. But I'm a...

Any woman in there 30's have trouble orgasm after DIVORCE from a long term relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 301 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Any woman in there 30's have trouble orgasm after DIVORCE from a long term relationship??? I always did with my ex but with new partner i have to use vibrators,he is much younger than me, by 10 yrs. any advice or help???? thanx ladies, plz share ur ...

Will I become just a sex object for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hello I have been having this relationship with this guy, he is wonderful with me, he does everything to please me, we always have great time together, we have been together for a little bit more than 5 months, so when we had 3 months of ...

Why do tears come out during sex? Do men like it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - During sex i cant help but my tears came out, what is the reason for that? is it because im over whelmed, happy or what? is man happy to see when their partner have a tears when they have sex?? please answerrrrrrrrrr...

He came in the condom and had me continue. What are the chance of being pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 483 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hello I have a slight um worry if you will. I have been off my period for 2 days and i had protected sex with my boyfriend. However he came in the condom and had me continue, i think some of the cum might have leaked out... but i am not sure wha...