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writes:hi,well,eva since i started having sex,which is a long time now,i ve never had an orgasm,i mean never.am married with two kids and my husband doesnt know cos i fake it!!!i dont want to hurt his feelings!!i do have feelings though when i put my pillow between my legs and imagine my husband screaming and groaning,when i rock my pillow,i grt some relief.pls help cause i really want a good f**k
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 If you never had one, how do you know how to fake one?
When you grind a pillow like that you are putting pressure on your the top of your vulva, your clit. The can also be done during intercourse. Either with your or his hand or by him by taking a position that causes his penis to grind against the top of your vulva.
There are also toys for the purpose of stimulating the clit during intercourse.
I presume foreplay doesn't happen? Change that. Few women get all they need from intercourse alone. Plenty of foreplay and intercourse that focusses not just on penetration but on stimulating the right parts for you.
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reader, bebe girlie  +, writes (29 July 2008):
Hi :) .. i see myself writing what your wrote...i also cant seem to have an orgasim...im mostly not satisfied from sex.. i dread it.. i started using lubricators so it looks like im wet .. although im mostly dry.. maybe we think too much thats the advice i got from friends or maybe we dont set our mood right...lets me and u next time we have sex with our husbands to ummm:1. set our mood2. imagine sexy stuff and get into sex..3. devor the feeling of every touch..4. lets forget everything in the outside world.5. if we like a certain touch we can beg them to stay there because i realized that my husband changes positions alot.6. tell him to tempt u (my husband goes down on me straight! thats bad i guess..he should kiss my thighs and try to tempt me and go slow with his tongue.. i guess that will work.Thats all .. I dont know .. I hope it works.. please stay in touch with meLoveHeBa
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reader, Curiousbynature  +, writes (29 July 2008):
Some women can’t have vaginal orgasms. Seriously, it’s a very high percentage of women that cannot. So try other regions. You have 3 spots where you can have an orgasm. Your anus, your vagina, and your clitoris. If you are not into the anus thing, then try the clitoris. Its great and it takes less than 60 seconds to be completed. Try masturbating and figure out what works for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): Your big mistake was faking it in the first place. He's been carrying on in blissful ignorance ever since, so really you didn't do anyone any favours.
What I'd suggest is telling him that you feel there's a little something missing from your orgasms and ask him if he could keep at it just that little bit longer so that you can feel an explosive orgasm rather than a little one. Maybe he'll fall for it. I hope so for your sake.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 well if you tell him now you will break his heart and devastate him so unless you want problems i wouldnt tell him and try and fix the problem..im against lying but in this case you are married and happy just you dont orgasm it would be a shame to loose what you have built..heres website to look at http://www.sexinfo101.com/kb_mastlad.shtml. maybe get a vibrator try and achieve an orgasm yourself then if you can then put what you did into practice with your husband. hope that helps. also try penetration with rubbing your clitorus.. hope that helps aphex xx
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