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writes:Note: I am a girl.So, I have recently become "sexually active" as they say. What I've realised is, despite thoroughly enjoying myself, I don't ever make any sex noises. Is this a big deal? Is anyone else quiet during sex/oral/fingering? Do guys care a lot about this? What noises do you make? Should I "fake it"?I feel really weird not moaning or screaming or whatnot. I'm afraid if I try and make noises, however, that it will sound really fake and weird. So I don't know what to do. Gah! Reply to this Question
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever-  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 Making noises is just a way of showing that your enjoying yourself. Don't fake it because that's not really fair on your partner. You could show him in other ways how much your enjoying it without making or faking noises.
Maybe making noises will come to you naturally at some point, at a time when you can't help it but make noise, if you get what I mean by that.
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reader, DoodlePixie +, writes (29 July 2008):
This is a nice reflection on sex that had been given to us by the porn industry - that we should scream at the top of our lungs during sex! Most people don't make much noise during sex, i tend not to. However my boyfriend did note once that i was awfully quiet so, as a joke, i spent a whole session being as loud and lustful as possible. As well as finding it slighty amusing my boyfriend did admit that he was majorly turned on! I don't make a habit of it but if you're 100% secure with your partner then maybe that could be an idea for you (as long as you're both in on the joke!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): dont fake it, just talk to who you have sex with about it if you must
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