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Archived questions from: May, 2005 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Why would my husband comment that I'm a lesbian, when I'm not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - My husband and I have been married 13 years. But when we argue he makes comments that I'm a lesbian. I'm totally heterosexual. So why does he make those comments?...

His mum can't decide whether to nag us about having kids, or try to break us up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6928 days ago

29 May 2005 (?) - Hi, My question is I have been married for 3 years and it seems my husband has changed overnight. Before he was like my best friend and now it seems like he's not interested in me. I have been married before andI also have a child. When I to...

Trying to get back together with my fiance, but we've hit an impasse on the issue of kids...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6930 days ago

26 May 2005 (?) - I am currently in the process of getting back together with my ex-fiance. We broke up just over a year ago as I felt trapped and not ready to make the commitment as I was very young (19) when we got engaged. However, during the year apart I have b...

When my husband tells his gay friend about our marital problems, should I worry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

26 May 2005 (?) - My husband has a real good friend for a while now. The friendship is even closer that we moved back to town. He confides with this person about our marital problems. My issue is his good friend is homosexual. It's a little uncomfortable for me to ...

He wants to be with me, but we're both afraid that his wife will make good on one of her threats!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6930 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I need advice again. My best friend has now told his wife that he is in love with me. There was a terrible row over it of course. She asked me if I felt the same, and I told her I did. We never meant to hurt her. My friend has been unhappy for ...

My husband & I had problems and I found a lover. Now I can't choose between them...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6775 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - hi...I'm currently facing a dilemma. I've been married for 18 months after a 1 year relationship and I'm 22. Me and my husband moved to another country after few months to start up a life together in a different environment. I was feeling quite lo...

I want to be happy with my husband... but he's fixated on my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6920 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I'm married for 5 months. I've got relationship before marriage and my husband knows about it. I want to start my new life and I love my husband, but he keeps talking about the other guy. He makes love to me only once a week and says that it is only ...

I thought he was cranky because of his job... but he was cheating with a younger woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6933 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - My husband of 18 1/2 years left 3 months ago. We have 12 year old boy/girl twins and up until maybe a year ago I actually thought he loved me. He was a good husband and good dad. I thought his criticalness and irritability of the past year were ...

Four years into marriage, and I feel I married the wrong man!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - I am married, and have been for four years. My husband is a wonderful man, but I'm beginning to feel that I just don't love him anymore. I was diagnosed with depression a few months ago, and despite care from my doctor, family and friends, as well ...

I'm lonely and separated from my partner. Neither of us is with anyone. Should we try again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6932 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - I want to know if I should keep trying to revive the relationship between me and my partner. We have lived seperate for 6 yrs, but we see each other often. He says he loves me and I him. We don't have sex (he's impotent). This doesn't bother me. We ...

I've broken up with my lover. Now how do I try to make things work with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6933 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - I have been in a relationship with my husband for 14years and married for 9. We have a young child. I have recently ended an affair which I have had for the last two and a half years. It ended because we got just too close. We were best of friends ...

My husband is the kindest and sweetest man, but I can't stop thinking of someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6933 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - I met this man before I married my husband. I felt like it was love at first sight, from the minute I saw him I have not stopped thinking about him. We met about 5 years ago and every day I think about him. I love my husband and nothing has ever...

Eight weeks until the wedding... and I feel trapped.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6935 days ago

20 May 2005 (?) - I am 29 yrs old. I have been with my girlfriend for seven years - she is also 29. She is a wonderful person - kind considerate, loving, thoughtful, etc We are due to be married in eight weeks. I am struggling with being married because I lov...

My boyfriend's father won't let us marry because he wants his son to have an arranged marriage...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

19 May 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend want to get married however his dad wont let it happen, because he wants his son to get a traditional arranged marriage. My boyfriend is now saying we should end our relationship because his dad will never change his mind. I...

How can I get divorced if my husband won't sign the papers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6934 days ago

19 May 2005 (?) - Me and my husband have been together for about 14 years and he started to beat me, so I want a divorce. Every time I bring him the divorce papers he refuses to sign them. Is there a way for me to divorce him without him signing the papers? Please ...

My wife can't seem to stay away from speed... or the guy she gets it from.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6939 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have been together with Caroline for 12 years and married for 11. She is 41 and I am 43. Both us us knew it wasn't right to have children in previous relationships, but felt it was right for us and we have a 4 1/2 year old daughter. We'...

My wife wants a divorce... but I think I could change to please her, if she'll try to love me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6937 days ago

17 May 2005 (?) - Dear sir/madam My wife wants a divorce and we are selling our house. She is from Italy and I am from Nepal. We live in Scotland. She asked me for divorce from October and she is here because of the process of selling the house is very long. In th...

Our disagreement over whether to have a baby has made our marriage stale...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6934 days ago

16 May 2005 (?) - I have been married for nearly 3 years and my wife wants a baby. Intially I did, but now I am not so sure. The marriage has gone stale, we have become iritable with each other because I have said I don't want to have a baby yet. We are both 32. R...

I'm enrolled in a degree course, but my husband still expects me to do 100% of the housework!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6934 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I have just spent eleven years raising my children and want to do something for myself. So I started a degree course, my husband minded but because it meant fewer argument. He allowed me to do this course, the only problem is that he expected me to ...

When he's on the phone with the bedroom door shut, he tells me I'm imagining it. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6942 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - Hi I'm 21 and my husband is 22. We've been married for 4 years with 2 daughters. He's always speaking to someone on the phone wih the bedroom door locked and when I ask him who was on the phone to he just says that I'm imagining it. Also when it was ...

I'm being accused of lying and hiding things from my husband... but they're more like half-truths. Aren't they?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6943 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I have been married since 1989 and with my husband since we were both 17 years old. For about the past year, maybe a little more than that, we have been fighting about stuff like him thinking I am lying to him and hiding things from him. I admi...

Only a month into my marriage, and I can't get in the mood for sex any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6945 days ago

12 May 2005 (?) - I decided to wait to have sex until marriage, and I just got married about a month ago. My problem is that I cannot get in the mood no matter what, and if I do I usually get out of the mood before my husband and I end up having sex, then it ...

Neither of us can agree on the "do we get married?" issue and it's tearing up our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for seven years. He won't propose. I am older then him by three years and I am the oldest in the group of friend we socialise with, whom of which most are getting married or engaged. Me and my partner have discussed i...

Do I leave the stable-but-boring relationship for the man who says he "adores" me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - Really need some outside advice! I've been married to a chap for 2 years (together for 7) who is mostly wonderful except for he hates the fact I am much more social and flirty, naturally than he is. I was like this when he first met me (at 18), but ...

I want another baby but my husband keeps saying "it's not the right time"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6947 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - My husband and I have been together 15 years, since we were teenagers. We did the usual stuff - talking about marriage, kids and all that. When we talked about family, we always had 2 children in mind . We now have a child who has started ...

At age 50 my husband says he doesn't have feelings for women any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - I have been happily married for 10 years - my husband turned round to me a couple of weeks ago and said our marriage is over! No particular reasons, he was just unhappy. He has now told me he has gay feelings for someone and doesn't know how to d...

I'm worried about my kids growing up with such an abusive man, but I'm also scared to leave...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6948 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I'm worried about my marriage. I have been with my husband for four years, married for three,and we have two kids, my daughter aged nine from a previous relationship, and our son, aged two. Sometimes, but not often, my husband is ok, but most oft...

My wedding is looming, but I love someone else...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6948 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - I'm due to get married soon but I'm in love with someone else. What do I do?...

My husband has moved out, has been texting our neighbour and says he doesn't love me any more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

1 May 2005 (?) - 6 months ago checked husband's mobile phone, found texts from my female neighbour! I have twins (4 yrs old now). We've been married for 7 yrs this Aug. I thought my husband and I were soulmates; this is my second marriage. I adore him! He had a tu...