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Why would my husband comment that I'm a lesbian, when I'm not?

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Question - (31 May 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2005)
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My husband and I have been married 13 years. But when we argue he makes comments that I'm a lesbian. I'm totally heterosexual. So why does he make those comments?

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A reader, Christie +, writes (31 May 2005):

This is probably nothing to worry about, he is probably just using it as an insult. It is the same as when people who arn't homophobic call things that are bad "gay". Either this or do you have a history like you "experimented" once maybe which gave him insecurities.

Other than that I think it is just him using lesbian or ne slang term which means lesbian as a casual insult. Take care .

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A reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (31 May 2005):

Rebecca Batchelor agony auntGood question. Why don't you ask him?!

Do you have a normal sex life? Perhaps he is wanting more from it that he isn't telling you. You need to find this out.

Exactly what does his comment refer to; that you look like a lesbian or that you somehow act like one?

I think, more than likely, this is a dig at your sex life. If you want to stay with him, then you need to find out what he really means and if it is to do with your sex life, how it can be improved.

Good luck.

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A reader, Cutie_Mish +, writes (31 May 2005):

i'm sure that your husband is only joking and because you might of not said anything about it before, he uses it again to annoy you! i don't think your husband after 13 years would sudden think you're a lesbian! i'm sure he would of realised earlier if you were! therefore he is simply calling you a lesbian to get at you. if you really want to get your own back, why not call him a gay! then laugh about it after to make up! but i don't recommend it if he's sensitive about that kinda stuff!

i'm sure it is all just a phase and he'll find another "name" to call you sooner or later! try not to take it too seriously!

good luck xXx

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