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writes:I need to know the opinion of someone who doesn't know me or anything about the people involved in this situation. So I'm going to explain this entire thing from the beginning. This summer I met a guy who was so different from any guy I'd ever met. He was unique, sweet and gentelmanly-oh also very attractive. So I was amazed when he took an interest in me. The only thing was he was only going to be in my town for a few weeks and then would have to go back home....in a different country. We had a lot of fun and even though it was such a short amount of time I felt we had an emotional connection. He said he would come back as soon as he could. When he left he called me on the plane because he wanted me to be the last person he spoke to in the country. We talked on facebook for a bit while he was there and decided that it was unrealistic and selfish to stand in between other relationships happening BUT we each couldn't stand the thought of each other sleeping with someone, and so decided to stay virgins until when we were older and could have a relationship. My friends thought it would be a good idea for me to move on a bit. So I started dating a different guy but when I told my first boyfriend about it we started talking on skype and I realized that I couldn't stand dating anyone else. It just wasn't worth it. So I told him that i was breaking up with the other guy (I did the next morning) because i cared about him too much. We talked on skype for 1-2 hours for a week. But now it's been an entire week and I haven't spoken to him. I don't know wats going on and I need your honest opinion. Am I kidding myself? Is this never going to go anywhere? What do you think he's thinking? Am I being naive? Is it worth it even if I think I love him?
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reader, Sweetie12 +, writes (19 September 2010):
 You cannot controll who you love and will never be able to, but the person you love may not always love you back. To me it sounds like you two were in love then maybe to much time has gone by. Maybe he is with someone else and your still on his mind but the distance is to much for him to handle. Im not telling you to fully move on but dont wait up. Maybe give it a couple weeks because its possible he computer may have crashed, but after a week or two if you still havnt herd anything dont wait around anymore i know the feeling of waiting around for nothing it sucks so my advice dont.Hope this helps some!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): I think you should let it go... Long distant relationships normally don't work out and he is so far away. Are you unable to get in touch with him? If it's meant to be, it will happen but don't put your life on hold waiting.
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