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writes:Im dating this guy. We've been together for about seven months but I dont really trust him with other girls because i found out he may have grinded with other girls at a dance a while ago. I had 6 friends come to me and argue whether he did or not but that was months ago and now i still dont know the answer. He actually cried in front of me and his friends when i dumped him for it though, so eventually we got back together. I have moved to a different town and we're trying the long distance thing but i think hes falling out of love with me. What should i do?? please help... We are suppossed to get married someday. he already proposed and now im so confused ..
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (17 September 2010):
 7 months and a break-up later he proposed? Have you even set a date, and no where in your post did you refer to him as your fiance. I really don't think either of you are in the marriage mind set. Can't help but think he proposed to you to say he was sorry for grinding on other girls. Plus you can't have a long distance relationship let alone a marriage without trust. Do you even love him? Because if you're apparently getting married the phrase "I love him" should have shown up in your post.
He didn't cheat so it sounds like you have a lot more doubt about him than think. Either let him regain the trust, or let him go because you can't seem to allow yourself to give him trust again. Please refrain from marriage until you solve your trust issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): I think the best thing in your situation is just forget about him.
If it does hurt you alot and he can't find the straight answer about it or why he disrespected you to dance with other girls like that leave him.
It will make you feel better in the end.
If he also loves you so much and doesn't want to loose you, then you having the courage to dump him might actually make him change his ways and come back to you, if not, then you will feel better with your decision.
Good Luck. I wish the best for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): Since when is grinding considered cheating? He was just dancing. You might be the jealous type, but no worries a lot of girls are. If he already proposed to you and cried in front of his friends when you broke up with him he's obviously committed to you. If your having doubts, you need to talk to him about it.
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