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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Am I still a virgin after my friend put her finger inside of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - i came here once, and i talked about where me and my girlfriend made out, and i regretted my action. So now i told her im not interested in her because i so much love my boyfriend. I forget to mention that im a virgin, and have not have sex before, ...

I am not sure whether my friend likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - I have a friend who I am crushing on and I have a feeling she might like me. She always calls me cute and laughs at my jokes, and every time she comes over to look at my work [at uni], she'll either put her hands on my shoulders, play with my hair, ...

How do I move this relationship on into the 'offline' world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Was walking through the shopping centre last week and heard my name being called out, long story short it was a friend from way back in primary school. We caught up for a bit and that evening I messaged him wishing him luck in his forthcoming exams. ...

I've never had an opportunity with a girl like this, let alone, any girl interested in me. Should I stay away from this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - This is sort of a dilemma. It's been a couple years since college graduation. My former roommate and female friend who have been together broke up not too long ago. I had visited them along with other friends from college. Well, the female frien...

What exactly is going on between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4004 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - I have a fairly weird relationship with my male best friend. We started off purely as friends initially, but then as we got closer, we became increasingly flirty around each other. We will admit that we think of each other day and night and miss ...

Do you think I have good reasoning to question his sexuality? Do you think he could possibly be gay or bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - I have this friend, who I'm head over heels for. He's extremely cute, smart, kind of socially awkward, etc. We hang out a ton and I consider him one of my best friends. Although there's one problem - I think he's straight and it would never work ...

One of my best friends is in love with the boy I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4004 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - There is a boy that is in all of my classes and has been all year. When I met him, my first thoughts were of how good looking he was. As I got to know him, I also found out he has a crazy sense of humor. He's tastefully halarious and isn't ...

Can extroverts successfully date introverts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I'm really extroverted and sociable; I have loads of friends and am generally pretty nice, but it seems to scare a lot of "introverted"/nice/geeky guys off as I guess I come across as rather in your face. I went out with a friend of mine (who's a...

I don't really have that many good friends, how do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4004 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I'm 27 and I've just realised today that I don't have any good friends, only acquaintances. I know I must be unintentionally doing something to cause this, so my question is how do I fix it? I always make an effort to be nice and friendly to peop...

Is it selfish to be a bit upset that my freshly-out gay friend will never feel for me what I feel for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I've always considered myself pan-sexual. I only fall for special people, regardless of gender. I can only fall for personality and not sex, and never people I haven't known for a while. I have a really good friend, whom I've been infatuated with ...

We all had plans to do stuff this summer, and now I'm not going to be invited to any of it. I'm really sad and feel lonely now. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I had a falling out with the main person in my friend group I guess you can say. It was just a little argument over something really silly, something I didn't even do, but I apologized and he still won't speak to me. Well since the...

Do girls share everything with their friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - I like this girl lets call her a. So in school a also responded me well.it was well obvious we both liked each other. We chat on facebook. And now i came 2 know.. Whenevr i used to chat with her,she used to share that with other freinds. Does gir...

She didn't value our friendship enough to let this happen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4005 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - hi everyone! I am a long time lurker of this website. anyway, my question is- a few months ago, my friend M started inviting me to hang out wiht a group of people who she si good friends with - they are from our school but i am not as close wit...

I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get her back but I don't know where to start! Help?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - okay , it is been along time now but i'm back ...and i have a question ..i really need help with it because i have no idea what to do . if you hurt your friend how many time do you say i'm sorry and what do you do when she just doesn't want to ...

do I let her go again or be a friend from afar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

28 May 2013 (M) - I bumped to my best friend in high school, I used to like her so much but we stopped talking because I started having a girlfriend and she didn't like the fact that I had feelings for her. I never asked my best friend how I truly felt about her and ...

I'm unable to see my friends as more than friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

28 May 2013 (M) - Is it possible to not be able to bypass the stage of friendship with pretty much all your friends? I know some people can become lovers after friendship, especially after a long one, but I can never seem to find myself more attracted to someone who ...

Attracted to a married man. He is making me feel guilty because I pulled away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I had a falling out with this man I work with. He is married. I am single. We have been friends all along but there is an attraction between us which changes the friendship aspect of the relationship into something more and potentially something ...

He asked me for a FWB relationship and I don't know how to proceed from here

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I have a guy friend, let's call him A, whom I've known for around an year. He's nice, funny, very intelligent, respectful - basically, he's a nice catch. A month ago I started hanging out with him and a bunch of friends, all male - I'm the only f...

I'm hurt that he didn't wish me well or say he was sorry for how things turned out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I was seeing someone on/off for 3 years. He got divorced about 10 months ago. Seemed interested at first, but then we had a disagreement. He then back tracked ever since. Which was 7 months ago. He insisted he didn't want to be in a relationship. ...

What does he mean by "ok cool"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Need some advice have this Guy friend I got my eyes on:)) but confused Idk if he likes me likes me.but we always hangout,play fight,cuddle, ect. okay so I really really like my Guy bestfriend alot so one day I just decided to tell him because ...

Risk our friendship by stating I still love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4006 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I dated this guy for a few months. He graduated last year and I'm a sophomore in high school. Please don't start saying he's too old for me because my mother is okay with it and so are both of his parents. Well, we broke up a year ago because he was ...

Don't want to date this guy, but I still want us to be friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, My situation I am in a bit of a pickle. I went on a nice date with this guy and a movie, but I don't want to date. This guy I met in my town just started talking to me and having conversation with me. And we chatted, and he ...

Is this single guy looking for a threesome with me and my BF? Who makes the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - So here it goes. I have a male friend he split up from his girlfriend a year ago and is still looking for someone. Recently he spoke to one of his other female friends and asked to have a Fwb relationship. She agreed but ended up getting back wit...

I have a friend I'm in love with. Do I just leave her alone? She still loves her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

26 May 2013 (M) - Okay,so recently I reconnented with a former best friend who stop talking to me because of her then boyfriend. Anyway we started back talking april 15th and we were dating that same day. We been together before she broke up with me Thursday, because ...

I visited an old boyfriend after 4 years. Is he worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, After four years, I booked a flight to visit my ex-boyfriend in Florida. The trip itself felt more like a dream because I didn't think I'd ever see him again. I had moved on, dated other guys and matured as a person whereas he did t...

I had sex with a girl and then had sex with her sister too. Should I try to talk to the one I like, or would that make it worse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - I have a pretty odd situation I'm in right now that I'd like some advice on: Basically, I was friends with a girl for about 2 years, she used to have a boyfriend during this period, so it was always friendly chat, I never tried to flirt with her o...

Since this girl came into the picture its like I don't even exist!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - Hey everyone I've been debating whether or not I should ask for help on this problem because it's so long and confusing but I'm really confused and need help and need to get this all off my chest. I've always had a great relationship wit...

My boyfriend is attending a wedding, his ex will be there and it's also my birthday. How should I read his request that I not attend the wedding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I am confused about what to do and how to feel... My boyfriend will attend the wedding of a high school classmate. They are not close friends. They haven't seen each other for 2 years. He invited him to his wedding 3 weeks before the weddi...

I'm single again. Now I think I've fallen in love with my best friend, What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4005 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - I've been extremely close to my friend for a little over 3 years now. Our friendship started out with us liking each other, then we kind of got over it and I got a boyfriend and was with him for 3 years. But my friend and I talk for hours on end on ...

If he was backing off from me, why go to such lengths to show that this girl is just his friend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - I have a quick question about male behavior. I have a friend i work with.. He was real flirty and and a big group of us went out and he was all about me. I didn't really think a whole lot on it since he was going through a divorce and we were all ...

I have to take the bus to see him. How can I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - I've asked a question about this before, but I need some more advice. Basically, I like someone a lot. Lots in common, we argue about literature and politics. I'm 14 he's 16. My last question was based on whether 2/3 years was too big an age g...

My friend has been dating and now has no time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - My best friend of 10 years has recently started a new relationship and since then she has pretty much cut all contact with me. She tells me that she can't afford to do anything or she has no time to meet me, yet I see her tagged on Facebook 3/4 ...

She has a boyfriend should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4005 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - I have feelings for a woman who has a boyfriend, and I'm contemplating telling her how I feel. Here are the details: About a year ago I made the decision to move to Japan. I have some Japanese friends on facebook, and I was chatting with them t...

I confronted my friend about never paying when we go out together. Was this the right way to deal with the situation? Please advise?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - I have a friend who never pays for her drinks when we go out to bars. She is the one that ussualy drives, so I always buy her first drink, but then she kind of assumes that the whole nite is on me. It happened already so many times, that I fi...

I don't know whether to bring a friend or let the girls bring a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4010 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - Going to be going to an amusement park with a girl I'm 90% interested in. It's going to be me, her, one of her best friends (a mutual friend), and a fourth person (whom the girl in question told me to pick from my friends). We're all from diffe...

Should I just break up with him, move on, and wait for someone who will appreciate me and love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Hello agony aunts. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years 3 days ago. My best friend was leaving the place we shared and i was pretty upset.i cried the whole day.when my bf got to know this he went bonkers. He told me i didn't cry for him when...

What advice can I give my friend whose long distance boyfriend seems aloof?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Hi there, It's been a long time since I was here. You all were great help. So now I'm back with a question for my friend. My friends have been in a relationship for 5 years. Mostly they are in Long Distance Relationship, since the boy went to st...

How can I tactfully reject him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Hello, First off thank you in advance for taking the time to read and offer advice :) I have a FRIEND that insists on hanging out with me and stuff. He invited me to a wedding in Washington state, he calls me "sexy", "Pretty lady" and things...

I'm drawn to my girlfriend's friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We have had our ups and downs like anybody and currently we have been getting along great and having a blast together. But for the past two years now, I have not been able to stop thi...

I feel jealous now that my ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - I've dated this guy when i was in school. He was my first boyfriend but we broke up after 5 months, we were still young and didn't know how to work things out. Now that 7 years pass we remain friends, we still keep in touch and some days we would...

Does guys keep their female friends so long so close because they really want to be just friends or because they like them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - I have a friend of 5 years and I kinda like him ever since we first met. He is an amazing guy and I would love to be more than just friends, but even though we are close, and there is some tension, he never actually said he likes me or he never ...

Ex BF says he won't consider a reconciliation if I go on a holiday with my friend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - I have been split up with my ex for 3 weeks now. We were living together and he said he wanted a break. We have argued constantly over the 2 years it seems he wants me of a weekday then of a weekend he just wants his mates. I can admit I have bee...

Feels like my Gf does not trust me. How can I cheer her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4005 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - "Dear Cupid", I just got a girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. We get along really well and we love being around each other because we can almost predict what the other one is thnkng, which I think is a massive improvement on how we acted around each ote...

Am I being "friendzoned"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - There's this girl I really like. I've been hanging out with her for the past month and a half: I got her number, she started texting me, we've gone to the movies and to a bar afterwards and we really connected. Then, last saturday she came to my h...

Why does he stay with this girl? How do I stop being upset about his relationship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I can't stop feeling so upset that my good friend continues to be with a girl who is always being unfaithful to him. I've known the guy for a long time, he's a good friend of the family and is really like a family member to me. ...

How do I warn my friend about my former FWB without reliving my story?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid I was in FWB for around 3 years on and off. He was my collegue at work and I was in love with him. Long story short he was very abusive towards the end and dumped me a month ago. We see each other at work, he carries on as if I don't ex...

I'm in love with my best friend who is going through a divorce, is there any hope we could be together? Or should I just give up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - My heart is broken and I am wondering if I should just give up on love. I REALLY need help in this situation! I feel very broken about this. Please no mean answers... I'm hoping no one will judge me for this. I love my best friend. I love...

He said my friend is a bit more beautiful than I am, is it ok for him to say this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I was with my boyfriend and we were talking,in the course of that i talked about my girlfriend and asked him if we look alike,he said yes that i and my girlfriend look alike but its just that she is a bit more beautiful than i am....is it okay that ...

My Wedding. Does any one have any solutions? I'm just terrified of everything and everything revolving around me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Hi! So I dont really know what to do for this, but I'm afraid of my wedding. I'm not afraid of commitment or anything and Im not afraid to go to other peoples weddings- just afraid of my own. I start looking at venues or dresses and just panic. ...

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always h...