A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok so I have been friends with this girl for most of my life and our families are also very close. We go to the same school as well but as time progressed we kind of grew apart. Even though we didn't talk as much we still kept in touch through social media and we would talk if we bumped into each other. So one day out of the blue I noticed that she had deleted me off of her facebook and instagram. It confused me because I personally didn't do anything to her and If I did I thought we were close enough to talk about it. She is still friends with my family and mutual friends so I automatically took it personally. Then maybe a week after I bumped into her at school and she acted like she didn't see me,which I also thought was weird. I mean I wouldn't care so much if she was just some random chick but I have known her for a long time and were almost like family, so should I confront her about her behavior or should I just leave it alone?
View related questions:
facebook Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Serpico +, writes (26 April 2013):
I can say without fear of contradiction that my life is all the better for never having a Facebook or Twitter account.
Do what you wish with that information.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2013): I wouldn't confront her, I'd just ask her. No big deal.
Want to know why I would? Here's a list:
-You post Marilyn Monroe quotes without realizing she was the worst female role model of her time, akin to Kim Kardashian these days except Kim doesn't ruin any but her own marriages and hasn't yet committed suicide.
-You post "inspirational" quotes a lot. No that doesn't make you deep or insightful it makes you generic, we all think those things thanks.
-You share posts that have the words "please share" in them.
-You share stuff to win prizes.
-You don't stop posting pictures of everything your child or pet does.
-You constantly post ambiguous "ugh my life is shit" statuses.
-You think 'liking' a picture of a cancer patient will help them be cured.
-You think 1 like = 1 prayer and that you're somehow a good person because of that.
-You're a beleiber, 1 directioner, little monster or identify yourself as being the number one fan of any pop artist.
There are more reasons OP, and I'm sure she has hers. Maybe it's nothing personal but that you have annoying FB habits.
...............................
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 April 2013):
 I would just ASK her.
"hey betty, I noticed you deleted me off of your facebook and instagram friends and I was wondering if there was something I did to make you do that?"
...............................
A
female
reader, Adeboyefa  +, writes (26 April 2013):
 Let her be since she pretends not to see you when you run into each other. If it were just the Facebook unfriending,I would have advised you to talk it out with her. Accept that she is just a family friend now,not your personal friend.
However,you should tell your family members who are still her friends about it. They may be able to get to the root of her strange behaviour and give you a feedback.
...............................
|
