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I want to salvage our friendship

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Question - (12 January 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have this really close friend who is a girl before Christmas we used to spend majority of our time together but after x mas she started getting very distant it caused a lot of rows because she said I was imagining it and I was accused of being jealous of a new friend she had made who was also a male which to a point I was as felt I was losing her to him as she seemed to want to spend more time with him than me.

We have now had an awful fight which resulted in us saying we want nothing more to do with each other and I really feel bad about the things we said also I had promised to help her do a essay for uni which was due tmrw she now wont be able to do iton time and has said I have let her down. I didn't do it because I felt she was using me and playing games. I hate the ill feeling and feel bad about what has been said.

I want to write a letter but don't know what to say. I am not sure if I want to be friends with her as there is the trust issue and how to over come it if we did manage to sort things out I am so confused and up set. She had been very kind and supportive to me through quite a bad time in my life so I do not understand why she went like this she said she would only speak to me when she felt like it this was before the row. I just do not know what to do or think please help!

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